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<channel><title><![CDATA[Family Shield - News]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.familyshieldco.com/news]]></link><description><![CDATA[News]]></description><pubDate>Fri, 07 Jul 2023 07:21:11 -0400</pubDate><generator>Weebly</generator><item><title><![CDATA[Mindfulness meditation may ease anxiety, mental stress]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.familyshieldco.com/news/mindfulness-meditation-may-ease-anxiety-mental-stress]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.familyshieldco.com/news/mindfulness-meditation-may-ease-anxiety-mental-stress#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Mon, 13 Apr 2020 21:16:07 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.familyshieldco.com/news/mindfulness-meditation-may-ease-anxiety-mental-stress</guid><description><![CDATA[POSTED JANUARY 08, 2014 , UPDATED AUGUST 05, 2019Julie Corliss,&nbsp;Executive Editor,&nbsp;Harvard Heart Letter   	 		 			 				 					 						          					 								 					 						  My mom began meditating decades ago, long before the mind-calming practice had entered the wider public consciousness. She liked to quote sayings from Thich Nhat Hanh, a Zen Buddhist monk known for his practice of mindful meditation, or &ldquo;present-focused awareness.&rdquo;   					 							 		 	   Although meditation [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="paragraph"><font size="3"><span>POSTED JANUARY 08, 2014 , UPDATED AUGUST 05, 2019</span><br /></font><a href="https://www.health.harvard.edu/blog/author/juliecorliss">Julie Corliss</a>,&nbsp;<em>Executive Editor,&nbsp;Harvard Heart Letter</em></div>  <div><div class="wsite-multicol"><div class="wsite-multicol-table-wrap" style="margin:0 -15px;"> 	<table class="wsite-multicol-table"> 		<tbody class="wsite-multicol-tbody"> 			<tr class="wsite-multicol-tr"> 				<td class="wsite-multicol-col" style="width:53.222222222222%; padding:0 15px;"> 					 						  <div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-none " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0;margin-right:0;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="https://www.familyshieldco.com/uploads/9/0/5/9/90592551/woman-meditating-in-the-outdoors-2908175_orig.jpg" alt="Picture" style="width:auto;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>   					 				</td>				<td class="wsite-multicol-col" style="width:46.777777777778%; padding:0 15px;"> 					 						  <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">My mom began meditating decades ago, long before the mind-calming practice had entered the wider public consciousness. She liked to quote sayings from Thich Nhat Hanh, a Zen Buddhist monk known for his practice of mindful meditation, or &ldquo;present-focused awareness.&rdquo;<br /><br /></div>   					 				</td>			</tr> 		</tbody> 	</table> </div></div></div>  <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span>Although meditation still isn&rsquo;t exactly mainstream, many people practice it, hoping to stave off stress and stress-related health problems. Mindfulness meditation, in particular, has become more popular in recent years. The practice of mindful meditation involves sitting comfortably, focusing on your breathing, and then bringing your mind&rsquo;s attention to the present without drifting into concerns about the past or future. (Or, as my mom would say, &ldquo;Don&rsquo;t rehearse tragedies. Don&rsquo;t borrow trouble.&rdquo;)</span></div>  <div>  <!--BLOG_SUMMARY_END--></div>  <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">But, as is true for a number of other alternative therapies, much of the evidence to support meditation&rsquo;s effectiveness in promoting mental or physical health isn&rsquo;t quite up to snuff. Why? First, many studies don&rsquo;t include a good control treatment to compare with mindful meditation. Second, the people most likely to volunteer for a meditation study are often already sold on meditation&rsquo;s benefits and so are more likely to report positive effects.<br />&#8203;<br />But when researchers from Johns Hopkins University in Baltimore, MD sifted through nearly 19,000 meditation studies, they found 47 trials that addressed those issues and met their criteria for well-designed studies. Their findings,&nbsp;<a href="http://archinte.jamanetwork.com/article.aspx?articleid=1809754" target="_blank">published in&nbsp;<em>JAMA Internal Medicine</em></a>, suggest that mindful meditation can help ease psychological stresses like anxiety, depression, and pain.<br /><br />Dr. Elizabeth Hoge, a psychiatrist at the&nbsp;<a href="http://www.massgeneral.org/psychiatry/services/anxiety_home.aspx" target="_blank">Center for Anxiety and Traumatic Stress Disorders</a>&nbsp;at Massachusetts General Hospital and an assistant professor of psychiatry at Harvard Medical School, says that mindfulness meditation makes perfect sense for treating anxiety. &ldquo;People with anxiety have a problem dealing with distracting thoughts that have too much power,&rdquo; she explains. &ldquo;They can&rsquo;t distinguish between a problem-solving thought and a nagging worry that has no benefit.&rdquo;<br />&#8203;<br />&ldquo;If you have unproductive worries,&rdquo; says Dr. Hoge, you can train yourself to experience those thoughts completely differently. &ldquo;You might think &lsquo;I&rsquo;m late, I might lose my job if I don&rsquo;t get there on time, and it will be a disaster!&rsquo; Mindfulness teaches you to recognize, &lsquo;Oh, there&rsquo;s that thought again. I&rsquo;ve been here before. But it&rsquo;s just that&mdash;a thought, and not a part of my core self,&rsquo;&rdquo; says Dr. Hoge.<br /><br />One of her studies (which was included in the&nbsp;<em>JAMA Internal Medicine&nbsp;</em>review) found that a mindfulness-based stress reduction program helped quell anxiety symptoms in people with generalized anxiety disorder, a condition marked by hard-to-control worries, poor sleep, and irritability. People in the control group&mdash;who also improved, but not as much as those in the meditation group&mdash;were taught general stress management techniques. All the participants received similar amounts of time, attention, and group interaction.<br /><br />To get a sense of mindfulness meditation, you can try one of the guided recordings by Dr. Ronald Siegel, an assistant clinical professor of psychology at Harvard Medical School. They are available for free at&nbsp;<a href="http://www.mindfulness-solution.com/" target="_blank">www.mindfulness-solution.com</a>.<br /><br />Some people find that learning mindfulness meditation techniques and practicing them with a group is especially helpful, says Dr. Hoge. Mindfulness-based stress reduction training, developed by Dr. Jon Kabat-Zinn at the University of Massachusetts Medical School in Worcester, MA, is now widely available in cities throughout the United States.<br />&#8203;<br />Thich Nhat Hahn offers this short mindful meditation in his book&nbsp;<em>Being Peace</em>: &ldquo;Breathing in, I calm my body. Breathing out, I smile. Dwelling in the present moment, I know this is a wonderful moment.&rdquo;</div>  <div><div style="height: 0px; overflow: hidden; width: 100%;"></div> <hr class="styled-hr" style="width:100%;"></hr> <div style="height: 20px; overflow: hidden; width: 100%;"></div></div>  <div class="paragraph"><strong>Related Information:</strong>&nbsp;<a href="https://www.health.harvard.edu/special-health-reports/positive-psychology-harnessing-the-power-of-happiness-personal-strength-and-mindfulness?utm_source=HHPBlog&amp;utm_medium=link&amp;utm_content=related-text&amp;utm_campaign=referral">Positive Psychology: Harnessing the power of happiness,&hellip;</a></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Living Wills and Health Care Proxies]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.familyshieldco.com/news/living-wills-and-health-care-proxies]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.familyshieldco.com/news/living-wills-and-health-care-proxies#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Fri, 10 Apr 2020 04:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.familyshieldco.com/news/living-wills-and-health-care-proxies</guid><description><![CDATA[Harvard Women's Health Watch,&nbsp;published: August, 2010   	 		 			 				 					 						          					 								 					 						  Advance care directives allow you to make your health care wishes known at a time when you are unable to speak for yourself.Most of us value our ability and freedom to make choices, especially about medical treatment. But what if you lose the capacity to make decisions or let your wishes be known? How will clinicians know what treatments you want, or don't want? Who would [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="paragraph"><em>Harvard Women's Health Watch,&nbsp;published: August, 2010</em></div>  <div><div class="wsite-multicol"><div class="wsite-multicol-table-wrap" style="margin:0 -15px;"> 	<table class="wsite-multicol-table"> 		<tbody class="wsite-multicol-tbody"> 			<tr class="wsite-multicol-tr"> 				<td class="wsite-multicol-col" style="width:35.333333333333%; padding:0 15px;"> 					 						  <div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-none " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0px;margin-right:0px;text-align:left"> <a> <img src="https://www.familyshieldco.com/uploads/9/0/5/9/90592551/photo-of-woman-standing-in-front-of-mirror-2269726_orig.jpg" alt="Picture" style="width:auto;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>   					 				</td>				<td class="wsite-multicol-col" style="width:64.666666666667%; padding:0 15px;"> 					 						  <div class="paragraph"><em>Advance care directives allow you to make your health care wishes known at a time when you are unable to speak for yourself.</em><br /><br />Most of us value our ability and freedom to make choices, especially about medical treatment. But what if you lose the capacity to make decisions or let your wishes be known? How will clinicians know what treatments you want, or don't want? Who would communicate your wishes to them?</div>   					 				</td>			</tr> 		</tbody> 	</table> </div></div></div>  <div class="paragraph"><span>The danger is that important medical decisions will be left to a physician who is unaware of your values, beliefs, or preferences, or to a relative who doesn't know your wishes, while your best friend, who knows far more about you, is legally powerless to intervene. One solution to this problem is a living will or health care power of attorney (also called a health care proxy form) &mdash; documents known as advance care directives. Every adult should have one or both of these documents.</span></div>  <div>  <!--BLOG_SUMMARY_END--></div>  <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><font size="5">What do they do?<br /></font>A living will and a health care power of attorney are related but work in different ways. In a living will, you describe your goals for medical treatment, your religious or spiritual beliefs, and any guidance you wish to give regarding your medical treatment in various circumstances. A health care power of attorney permits you to name a health care proxy, or agent &mdash; a person who will make medical decisions on your behalf if you are unable to make them yourself.<br /><br />People sometimes worry that by signing one of these documents they give up control over their medical treatment. But it doesn't work that way. As long as you're able to make and communicate your decisions, your word supersedes anything you've written or said to others. An advance care directive goes into effect only when you're unconscious or too ill to make your wishes known &mdash; and once you recover from the incapacity, what you say takes precedence over any document.<br /><br />Advance care directives are not difficult to create. You can write one up on your own, without a lawyer's help (see "Selected resource"). Some experts suggest that you either make a living will&nbsp;<em>or</em>&nbsp;assign a health care proxy. If you choose to have both, naming a health care proxy should be a priority, to ensure that someone can act in situations not covered in a living will.<br /><br /><font size="5">Your health care proxy<br /></font>If you can't make health care choices for yourself and don't have a health care proxy, the job of making them will likely fall to one or more of your relatives. For many people, this isn't a problem. But if you don't feel close to your legal next of kin, you may not want these decisions to be in his or her hands. Also, if two or more relatives are involved, your clinicians may feel they need to get a consensus before proceeding. This can cause conflict and delay treatment.<br /><br />Most people pick a spouse, partner, adult child, or close friend as their health care proxy. It's best not to appoint more than one (and in many states it's illegal to do so) because all of them would need to agree on every decision. But do appoint an alternate proxy in the event your proxy is unavailable when needed. You can also instruct your proxy to consult others.<br /><br />Your health care proxy is obliged by law to make decisions that she or he thinks you would have made. Talk to your proxy about medical treatments you may or may not want and about how your religious or spiritual beliefs and personal concerns shape your treatment preferences in various situations. If you have a living will, go over it with your proxy. You can't anticipate everything, so make sure you feel absolutely comfortable allowing the proxy to make decisions about matters you haven't specifically discussed.<br /><br /><font size="5">What's in a living will?<br /></font>A living will provides a written record that can guide your doctors and loved ones in caring for you. Often, it's used to determine how aggressive you would like your health care to be near the end of life. Be careful in describing your wishes, because it's impossible to know all the variables that might affect a future decision. For example, if you say you don't want to be tube-fed under any circumstances, you might be lowering your chance of recovery from a temporary health setback.<br /><br />Your physician can explain medical terms and discuss what's possible and what's unlikely to work given your situation and goals. It's a good idea to talk to her or him before you finalize your wishes, whether you do that in a document or in conversations with your health care proxy, family, and friends.<br /><br />The information that's required for a living will or other advance care directive differs from state to state. To download the correct forms for your state, go to Caring Connections, a Web site of the National Hospice and Palliative Care Organization, at&nbsp;<a href="http://www.caringinfo.org/">www.caringinfo.org</a>.<br /><br />Living wills generally cover certain procedures that might be performed when a person is incapacitated or at the end of life, including these:<br /><br /><em><strong style="color:rgb(43, 43, 43)">Artificial nutrition (tube feeding).</strong></em>&nbsp;If you can't swallow anything, this procedure supplies nutrients and fluids through a tube inserted through your nose into your stomach (short-term), through the abdominal wall into the stomach (long-term), or into a vein if your gut isn't working properly. Tube feeding may be used as a bridge when the underlying problem is thought to be temporary and the person is likely to recover. More controversially, it has also been used long-term to help keep a person with an irreversible condition alive. Hydration (giving a solution of water, sugar, and minerals through the vein) can also be used short-term or long-term.<br /><br /><em><strong style="color:rgb(43, 43, 43)">Cardiopulmonary resuscitation (CPR).</strong></em>&nbsp;If your heart or breathing stop and you become unconscious, you may be resuscitated by CPR. This technique involves artificial circulation (chest compressions), artificial respiration (mouth-to-mouth breathing), and defibrillation (to shock the heart back into a steady rhythm). If CPR fails, the next step is advanced cardiac life support: intubation and mechanical ventilation plus medications to control heart rate, raise or lower blood pressure, or improve kidney function. CPR can cause injury, and the revival rate with CPR is low &mdash; no more than 22% in general, and as low as zero for older, frail people. Some people with terminal illnesses who have been resuscitated this way say they wish they hadn't been. Think about whether there are situations in which you wouldn't want CPR.<br /><br /><em><strong style="color:rgb(43, 43, 43)">Mechanical ventilation.</strong></em>&nbsp;A ventilator or respirator (sometimes called a breathing machine) forces air into the lungs when you can't breathe on your own. A tube attached to the machine is inserted into the nose, mouth, or throat and passed into the trachea (windpipe). Because this is extremely uncomfortable, people on ventilators require high doses of sedatives and therefore are not fully conscious. Like tube feeding, mechanical ventilation can be used for a short period of time, as a bridge to recovery, or long-term. You should decide whether you want to be kept on mechanical ventilation if physicians determine you will never be able to breathe again on your own.<br /><br /><br /><font size="5">A doctor talks about: Advance care directives<br /></font><em>Celeste Robb-Nicholson, M.D.</em><br />In my own medical practice, I find advance care directives invaluable. They help me open a dialogue with my patients about their deepest concerns, especially about being critically ill or incapacitated &mdash; whether they fear pain, loneliness, lack of control, or becoming a burden. These documents also give family members or friends the guidance they need to make difficult choices for an incapacitated loved one.<br /><br />But no document can anticipate everything. Early on in many critical situations, it's impossible to predict a patient's outcome. The advance care directive doesn't lessen my responsibility to bring my medical insights to bear on my patient's predicament. She may need a respirator, feeding tube, catheters, or more, to get through a difficult part of her illness. All doctors have seen critically ill patients &mdash; burn victims are a good example &mdash; who recover a very good quality of life after terrible ordeals. Unless a patient has a known terminal illness, we do what we believe will support her life.<br /><br />Sometimes the patient doesn't respond, and the medical technology we called upon ends up supporting a kind of life she doesn't want. In these circumstances, patients, families, and doctors may find themselves second-guessing their original decisions. All parties may have to consider withholding or withdrawing medical support. A living will or health care proxy can help in those situations.<br /><br />Even with a living will, the issues surrounding end-of-life care are rarely simple or clear-cut. A doctor's notion of "quality of life" may differ from her patient's, and she may not feel completely confident of her patient's wishes in the immediate circumstances. Family members may have strong and conflicting views.<br /><br />We physicians want to help our patients live while honoring their choices about dying and acknowledging their fears about living with a poor quality of life. Advance care directives are important guidelines, but there's no substitute for frank conversations with your physician, your health care proxy (should you choose one), and anyone else who is close to you. Such dialogues help foster trust and confidence that all those involved will work together in your best interest.<br /><br /><font size="5">Sharing your health care preferences<br /></font>After your health care proxy, your primary care physician is the most important person to talk to about your advance care directives. A physician who disagrees with your wishes doesn't have to carry them out, but she or he is obligated to find another clinician who will. Make sure your physician knows the contents of your advance care directives and agrees to find a clinician to comply with any requests that she or he finds problematic.<br /><br />It's important to define any terms in your health care proxy form or living will that could be open to various interpretations. One study found that a group of doctors given a hypothetical living will and patient story came to very different conclusions about what should be done. Terms like "life-threatening," "short period of time," "severe disease," "end-stage condition," and, especially, "quality of life" may require clarification or specification.<br /><br />Once you've completed your living will and health care proxy form, keep the originals at home in a safe place, and give copies to your proxy, alternate proxy, and physician (she or he should keep the copies in your medical file along with notes about any conversations you've had and the health care proxy's current contact information).<br /><br /><font size="5">Advance planning for end-of-life care<br /></font>In 1990, Congress passed the Patient Self-Determination Act guaranteeing patients the right to accept or refuse treatment and to complete advance care directives. Since then, an increasing number of people have made living wills and assigned health care proxies, but the effectiveness of such measures has been the subject of debate. The directives aren't always available when needed; the clinician may not even know a directive exists; the proxy may be unavailable or emotionally unable to provide guidance; or the patient's stated preferences with respect to medical interventions may be outdated or inapplicable to the specific circumstances.<br /><br />To counter these problems, some experts have proposed an additional form for people with terminal or advanced illnesses, called Physician Orders for Life-Sustaining Treatment (POLST). POLST doesn't supplant a living will or health care proxy form, although it could function in the absence of one.<br />&#8203;<br />The first step is a discussion about end-of-life treatment options between the physician and patient (or an authorized health care decision-maker). The patient decides on a treatment plan, and her wishes are then translated into medical orders, which are recorded on a brightly colored form signed by the physician and kept in the front of the patient's medical record, to guide health providers during an emergency. The POLST form focuses on potentially imminent decisions rather than long-term planning. It covers interventions such as CPR, intubation, and tube feeding, and it goes with the patient if she or he moves to another facility.<br /><br />So far, POLST programs have been endorsed or are in development in more than 30 states. For more information, go to&nbsp;<a href="http://www.ohsu.edu/polst">www.ohsu.edu/polst</a>.</div>  <div><div style="height: 20px; overflow: hidden; width: 100%;"></div> <hr class="styled-hr" style="width:100%;"></hr> <div style="height: 20px; overflow: hidden; width: 100%;"></div></div>  <div class="paragraph"><font size="2"><strong style="color: rgb(43, 43, 43);">Disclaimer:</strong><strong>&nbsp;</strong><em style="color: rgb(68, 68, 68);">As a service to our readers, Harvard Health Publishing provides access to our library of archived content. Please note the date of last review or update on all articles. No content on this site, regardless of date, should ever be used as a substitute for direct medical advice from your doctor or other qualified clinician.</em></font></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Planning ahead for your future medical care]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.familyshieldco.com/news/planning-ahead-for-your-future-medical-care]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.familyshieldco.com/news/planning-ahead-for-your-future-medical-care#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Thu, 09 Apr 2020 04:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.familyshieldco.com/news/planning-ahead-for-your-future-medical-care</guid><description><![CDATA[Harvard Heart Letter,&nbsp;Published: October, 2016  Talking with loved ones about your values and wishes can help ensure you'll receive the type of treatment you want.   	 		 			 				 					 						          					 								 					 						  If you're like most people, you've avoided talking about what would happen in the event that you become unable to make your own health care decisions. But as your family and friends gather together during the upcoming holidays, consider carving out some time for a [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><em>Harvard Heart Letter,&nbsp;Published: October, 2016</em></div>  <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><font size="5">Talking with loved ones about your values and wishes can help ensure you'll receive the type of treatment you want.</font></div>  <div><div class="wsite-multicol"><div class="wsite-multicol-table-wrap" style="margin:0 -15px;"> 	<table class="wsite-multicol-table"> 		<tbody class="wsite-multicol-tbody"> 			<tr class="wsite-multicol-tr"> 				<td class="wsite-multicol-col" style="width:43%; padding:0 15px;"> 					 						  <div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-none " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0;margin-right:0;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="https://www.familyshieldco.com/uploads/9/0/5/9/90592551/lamp-cloud-old-rest-69415_orig.jpg" alt="Picture" style="width:auto;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>   					 				</td>				<td class="wsite-multicol-col" style="width:57%; padding:0 15px;"> 					 						  <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">If you're like most people, you've avoided talking about what would happen in the event that you become unable to make your own health care decisions. But as your family and friends gather together during the upcoming holidays, consider carving out some time for an important conversation with a person you trust.<br />&#8203;<br />Everyone should have a health care proxy&mdash;a person who can speak on your behalf if you lack the capacity to do so. "You don't want to burden your health care proxy with difficult decisions. That's why you need to discuss the choices that you'd make for yourself," says Dr. Lynne W. Stevenson, professor at Harvard Medical School and director of the cardiomyopathy and heart failure program at Brigham and Women's Hospital.</div>   					 				</td>			</tr> 		</tbody> 	</table> </div></div></div>  <div>  <!--BLOG_SUMMARY_END--></div>  <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><font size="5">Living longer with heart failure</font><br />We tend to think about these discussions as being appropriate for people who are either very old or who have an advanced stage of cancer. In fact, cardiovascular disease is the most common cause of death. Yet over the past few decades, treatment advances have changed the arc of this disease. More people are surviving heart attacks, which means there are more people who eventually develop heart failure&mdash;when the weakened heart can't pump enough blood to meet the body's needs. But improved therapies have also greatly extended the lives of people with heart failure.<br /><br />"Thirty years ago, people with advanced heart disease who didn't get a heart transplant were dead within two years. Today, I follow many patients who have survived more than a decade with their own hearts despite heart failure, thanks to better medications and special pacemakers," explains Dr. Stevenson. These days, many people with heart failure survive into old age and end up dying of something else&mdash;an illustration of the uncertainty we all live with.<br /><br />None of us knows what's going to happen in five years, in 10 years, or even tomorrow. Perhaps the most feared outcome is a stroke. So that old adage&mdash;to plan for the worst and hope for the best&mdash;makes sense. But this uncertainty is a fundamental aspect of the value and meaning of the human journey, says Dr. Stevenson.<br /><br /><font size="5">Accepting uncertainty</font><br />&#8203;For people with a serious, chronic illness like advanced heart disease, one question invariably comes up: "Doctor, how long do I have?" But no doctor can answer that question for any disease, says Dr. Stevenson, noting that heart disease is particularly fraught with uncertainty. People with advanced heart failure can have bad days when they struggle to breathe and feel weak and exhausted, followed by some good days where they are able to enjoy their activities and interactions. However, many cardiac conditions increase your risk for dying unexpectedly from a sudden rhythm disturbance, even when things are going well, she explains.<br /><br />Only about a quarter of adult Americans have an advance directive, a document that helps guide your future care. The first step is to choose a health care proxy&mdash;someone who will have the knowledge and strength to carry out your wishes regarding the health care you receive. Many people have heard of a living will. However, this document may not address the range of possible situations beyond whether you want to be resuscitated or receive artificial life support. The numerous possible decisions are hard to anticipate unless you already have a potentially terminal disease.<br /><br />A health decision worksheet may be a better way to help you consider and explain your goals for care in more detail. It includes questions about your fears about your final stages of life, what aspects of your life are most crucial to you, and what will bring you joy, as well as detailed questions about medical care, such as artificial nutrition, hemodialysis, and comfort care that is focused on symptoms rather than survival.<br /><br />For a free copy of this worksheet and a health care proxy form, see&nbsp;<a href="http://www.health.harvard.edu/ADforms">www.health.harvard.edu/ADforms</a>. To order Harvard Health Publishing' detailed report on this topic, Advance Care Planning: A guide to advance directives, living wills, and other strategies for communicating health care preferences, see&nbsp;<a href="http://www.health.harvard.edu/lw">www.health.harvard.edu/lw</a>.<br /><br /><font size="5">Simplify future decisions<br /></font>Your wishes and priorities will likely change as you age and develop new or progressive medical conditions. So it's a good idea to review any health care documents every few years while you're healthy, or more urgently if you have any new diagnoses or other major changes in your life.<br />Dr. Stevenson, a co-author of the American Heart Association's statement on shared decision making in advanced heart failure, points out one of the most important take-home messages from that document: "Difficult discussions now will simplify difficult decisions in the future." In other words: give your family and friends a gift for the future&mdash;the comfort of knowing how you want to be treated during what could be a challenging time for everyone.<br /><br />Even if these conversations may feel awkward and emotional, they are often followed by a profound sense of relief. "Unspoken fears about what might happen can isolate us from those we care about," says Dr. Stevenson. "Sharing them can reinforce the vital connections to each other, both now and in the times ahead."<br /><br /><font size="5">End-of-life care for heart failure<br /></font>People with advanced heart failure may eventually reach a point where their symptoms become hard to manage. They have may have difficulty breathing, which makes everything&mdash;even sleeping&mdash;an effort, and their bodies may swell with excess fluid because of poor kidney function. When bouts of hospitalization become more frequent, they may want to arrange a consultation with a palliative care specialist. Palliative care aims to keep a person with a serious, advanced illness comfortable and pain-free with a combination of measures to treat distressing symptoms.<br />&#8203;<br />For example, small doses of narcotics can help people feel more comfortable and breathe more easily yet still remain alert and able to interact with their families, says Dr. Stevenson. People who have a device that corrects abnormal rhythms (an implantable cardioverter-defibrillator, or ICD) may want to have a discussion with their physician about when to disable the feature that delivers a shock to restore a normal heart rhythm. Keeping an ICD functioning can interfere with what might be considered a more natural death, says Dr. Stevenson.</div>  <div><div style="height: 20px; overflow: hidden; width: 100%;"></div> <hr class="styled-hr" style="width:100%;"></hr> <div style="height: 20px; overflow: hidden; width: 100%;"></div></div>  <div class="paragraph"><font size="2"><strong style="color: rgb(43, 43, 43);">Disclaimer:</strong><strong>&nbsp;</strong><em style="color: rgb(68, 68, 68);">As a service to our readers, Harvard Health Publishing provides access to our library of archived content. Please note the date of last review or update on all articles. No content on this site, regardless of date, should ever be used as a substitute for direct medical advice from your doctor or other qualified clinician.</em></font></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Positive Psychology in Practice]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.familyshieldco.com/news/positive-psychology-in-practice]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.familyshieldco.com/news/positive-psychology-in-practice#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Wed, 01 Apr 2020 04:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.familyshieldco.com/news/positive-psychology-in-practice</guid><description><![CDATA[Harvard Mental Health Letter,&nbsp;published: May, 2008   	 		 			 				 					 						          					 								 					 						  Various approaches aim to shift attention away from pathology.&#8203;Positive psychology is sometimes dismissed as so much happy talk. But practitioners say that their techniques provide a much-needed balance to psychiatry's traditional focus on psychic pain and pathology.   					 							 		 	   The term "positive psychology" is a broad one, encompassing a variety of techniq [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="paragraph"><em>Harvard Mental Health Letter,&nbsp;published: May, 2008</em></div>  <div><div class="wsite-multicol"><div class="wsite-multicol-table-wrap" style="margin:0 -15px;"> 	<table class="wsite-multicol-table"> 		<tbody class="wsite-multicol-tbody"> 			<tr class="wsite-multicol-tr"> 				<td class="wsite-multicol-col" style="width:47.333333333333%; padding:0 15px;"> 					 						  <div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-none " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0px;margin-right:0px;text-align:left"> <a> <img src="https://www.familyshieldco.com/uploads/9/0/5/9/90592551/published/man-wearing-black-cap-with-eyes-closed-under-cloudy-sky-810775.jpg?1586811578" alt="Picture" style="width:auto;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>   					 				</td>				<td class="wsite-multicol-col" style="width:52.666666666667%; padding:0 15px;"> 					 						  <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span>Various approaches aim to shift attention away from pathology.<br />&#8203;</span><br /><span>Positive psychology is sometimes dismissed as so much happy talk. But practitioners say that their techniques provide a much-needed balance to psychiatry's traditional focus on psychic pain and pathology.</span></div>   					 				</td>			</tr> 		</tbody> 	</table> </div></div></div>  <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">The term "positive psychology" is a broad one, encompassing a variety of techniques that encourage people to identify and further develop their own positive emotions, experiences, and character traits. In many ways, positive psychology builds on key tenets of humanistic psychology. Carl Rogers' client-centered therapy, for example, was based on the theory that people could improve their lives by expressing their authentic selves. And Abraham Maslow identified traits of self-actualized people that are similar to the character strengths identified and used in some positive psychology interventions.</div>  <div>  <!--BLOG_SUMMARY_END--></div>  <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Although initially developed as a way to advance well-being and optimal functioning in healthy people, positive psychology techniques are now being promoted as a complement to more traditional forms of therapy. For example, University of Pennsylvania psychologist Martin E.P. Seligman, a well-known advocate of positive psychology, has described its core philosophy as a "build what's strong" approach that can augment the "fix what's wrong" approach of more traditional psychotherapy.<br /><br />Another pioneer in the field, Harvard psychiatrist George E. Vaillant, sees positive psychology as a way to encourage patients to focus on positive emotions and build strengths, supplementing psychotherapy that focuses on negative emotions, like anger and sorrow. In a talk about positive psychology, Dr. Vaillant cited the example of a standard psychiatric textbook used by psychiatrists and clinical psychologists. The textbook, he says, contains roughly a million lines of text, with thousands of lines devoted to anxiety and depression, and hundreds discussing terror, shame, guilt, anger, and fear. But only five lines in the textbook discuss hope, only one mentions joy, and not a single line mentions compassion or love.<br /><br />To counter the traditional focus on pathology, Seligman and another psychologist, Christopher Peterson, have formalized the tenets of positive psychology in a book,&nbsp;<em>Character Strengths and Virtues: A Handbook and Classification</em>&nbsp;(CSV), which they created as a counterpoint to the&nbsp;<em>Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, Fourth Edition</em>(DSM-IV). Just as the&nbsp;<em>DSM-IV</em>&nbsp;classifies a range of psychiatric disorders, the&nbsp;<em>CSV</em>&nbsp;provides details and classifications for various strengths that enable people to thrive. The book identifies 24 character strengths, like curiosity and zest, organized according to six overarching virtues, such as wisdom and courage.<br />&#8203;<br />A number of different counseling and coaching strategies rely on aspects of positive psychology. Although it's impossible to review all of them in a single article, a few examples can help to provide a taste of how they may complement more traditional therapies.<br /><br /><strong>Summary points</strong><ul><li>Positive psychology focuses on positive emotions and personal strengths.</li><li>It can complement rather than replace traditional psychotherapy.</li><li>Studies evaluating outcomes of interventions using positive psychology have mostly been small and short term.</li></ul><br /><font size="5">Well-being therapy</font><br />As its name implies, well-being therapy tries to promote recovery from depression and other affective disorders by having a patient focus on and promote the positive, as well as alleviating negative aspects of life. Developed by Giovanni Fava at the University of Bologna in Italy, well-being therapy is based in large part on the work of psychologist Carol Ryff and her multidimensional model of subjective well-being. Ryff's model consists of six tenets: mastery of the environment, personal growth, purpose in life, autonomy, self-acceptance, and positive relationships.<br /><br />In practical terms, well-being therapy is much like cognitive behavioral therapy. A patient keeps a journal to keep track of and recognize the positive events that occur each day. Next the patient starts recognizing negative thoughts and beliefs that distract from or disrupt positive events. The ultimate goal is to challenge and eventually change negative ways of thinking, to enable positive events to have more of an impact on the patient's life.<br /><br /><font size="5">Positive psychotherapy</font><br />Seligman and colleagues at the University of Pennsylvania developed positive psychotherapy as a way to treat depression by building positive emotions, character strengths, and sense of meaning, not just by reducing negative symptoms such as sadness. This therapy uses a combination of 12 exercises (such as the following) that can be practiced individually or in groups.<br /><br /><em>Using your signature strengths.</em>&nbsp;Identify your top five strengths (see "Resources" for a free online questionnaire) and try to use them in some new way daily.<br /><br /><em>Three good things.</em>&nbsp;Every evening, write down three good things that happened that day and think about why they happened.<br /><br /><em>Gratitude visit.</em>&nbsp;Write a letter to someone explaining why you feel grateful for something they've done or said. Read the letter to the recipient, either in person or over the phone.<br /><br />This is one of the few forms of positive psychotherapy that has been tested in a randomized controlled trial. The study found that some exercises are more beneficial than others (see "Does positive psychology work?" for details).<br /><br /><font size="5">Integrating positive psychology in practice</font><br />Psychologist Carol Kauffman, director of the Coaching and Positive Psychology Initiative at Harvard's McLean Hospital, discussed four techniques for integrating the principles of positive psychology into more traditional types of individual or group therapy.<br /><br /><em>Reverse the focus from negative to positive.</em>&nbsp;Most people tend to dwell on negative events or emotions and ignore the positive ones &mdash; and therapy can encourage this. One way to reverse the focus is to use techniques aimed at shifting attention to more positive aspects of life. For example, take a mental spotlight each night and scan over the events of the day, thinking about what went right. Another tip is to compile "I did it" lists instead of only writing down what needs to be done.<br /><br /><em>Develop a language of strength.</em>&nbsp;Therapists and patients often talk about pain, conflict, and anger. Although these are all aspects of life, it may be harder for people to talk about or even identify more positive qualities and personal strengths.<br /><br />Kauffman and other positive psychology practitioners often use strength coaching while advising patients. Just as an athlete exercises certain muscles to become stronger, the theory is that people who use their strengths regularly will function better in life. To boost mental facility, Kauffman recommends that people identify one top strength and then use it at least once a day.<br /><br /><em>Balance the positive and negative.</em>&nbsp;It's also important for people to identify and foster the positive for themselves and others in order to provide a balance to the negative. For example, business executives may mix praise with criticism when evaluating employees to nurture their growth.<br /><br /><em>Build strategies that foster hope.</em>&nbsp;Finding ways to foster hope in someone may increase that person's ability to deal with adversity and overcome a challenge. One way to cultivate hope is to reduce the scope of the problem &mdash; perhaps by breaking it down into components that can be tackled one at a time. Another way is to identify skills and coping mechanisms that would enable someone to overcome a particular challenge, and then provide a way to build them.<br /><br /><font size="5">Does positive psychology work?</font><br />Proponents of positive psychology tend to cite studies showing that optimistic or happy people are healthier, more successful, and live longer than other people. Critics counter that people may have inborn temperaments that function a bit like set-points, and that interventions aimed at making them happier will only work for a limited time. Eventually, the critics claim, people return to their baseline level of happiness.<br /><br />A 2005 review of the studies published about positive psychology interventions found that only one involved people with clinical depression &mdash; and that study was small, and the intervention was not tested against a control. The study enrolled 16 people who met the criteria for clinical depression according to their scores on the Beck Depression Inventory and the Hamilton Rating Scale of Depression. Participants met weekly for 15 weeks to discuss readings about topics such as how to increase satisfaction with health and improve self-esteem. All 13 people who completed the study were reassessed at the end of the intervention; none of them met the criteria for clinical depression.<br /><br />&#8203;Since then, only one large randomized controlled trial of a positive psychology intervention for people with clinical depression has been published. After two preliminary studies found positive psychotherapy (PPT) to be promising, Seligman and colleagues conducted a randomized controlled trial involving 411 participants that compared five different PPT exercises with a control exercise, all of which were administered over the Internet and could be completed in one week. Participants were assessed before the intervention and then periodically afterward for six months.<br /><br />At the six-month mark, participants were rated by the Steen Happiness Index and the Center for Epidemiologic Studies Depression Scale. Those completing the "using your signature strengths" and "three good things" exercises rated significantly happier and less depressed than the control group. The "gratitude visit" exercise also created positive changes, but only for one month. The two other exercises and the control exercise created briefer and transient effects.<br /><br />Most other studies have been short-term in nature (several lasted six to 10 weeks, and one lasted three days) and have involved people who did not have psychiatric diagnoses. This means it remains unclear whether positive psychology techniques will help people suffering from depression and other psychiatric disorders.<br /><br />Another limitation in the research so far is that investigators have evaluated mostly individual strategies, but positive psychology interventions usually combine several techniques at once. It's also unclear how best to combine positive psychology interventions with more traditional types of therapy, such as cognitive behavioral therapy, or with medication.<br /><br />Although the jury is still out on the clinical impact of positive psychology, leaders in the field are encouraging patients and clinicians to give positive techniques a try. After all, there are few risks involved when someone discovers his or her strengths or focuses on the positive side of life &mdash; and there may be valuable benefits.</div>  <div class="paragraph"><span style="color:rgb(68, 68, 68)">For references, please see&nbsp;</span><a href="http://www.health.harvard.edu/mentalextra">www.health.harvard.edu/mentalextra</a><span style="color:rgb(68, 68, 68)">.</span></div>  <div><div style="height: 20px; overflow: hidden; width: 100%;"></div> <hr class="styled-hr" style="width:100%;"></hr> <div style="height: 20px; overflow: hidden; width: 100%;"></div></div>  <div class="paragraph"><font size="2"><strong style="color: rgb(43, 43, 43);">Disclaimer:</strong><strong>&nbsp;</strong><em style="color: rgb(68, 68, 68);">As a service to our readers, Harvard Health Publishing provides access to our library of archived content. Please note the date of last review or update on all articles. No content on this site, regardless of date, should ever be used as a substitute for direct medical advice from your doctor or other qualified clinician.</em></font></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Advance Care Planning: Healthcare Directives]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.familyshieldco.com/news/advance-care-planning-healthcare-directives]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.familyshieldco.com/news/advance-care-planning-healthcare-directives#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Fri, 17 Jan 2020 06:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.familyshieldco.com/news/advance-care-planning-healthcare-directives</guid><description><![CDATA[ Advance care planning is not just about old age. At any age, a medical crisis could leave you too ill to make your own healthcare decisions. Even if you are not sick now, planning for health care in the future is an important step toward making sure you get the medical care you would want, if you are unable to speak for yourself and doctors and family members are making the decisions for you.Many Americans face questions about medical treatment but may not be capable of making those decisions,  [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<span class='imgPusher' style='float:right;height:0px'></span><span style='display: table;width:auto;position:relative;float:right;max-width:100%;;clear:right;margin-top:0px;*margin-top:0px'><a><img src="https://www.familyshieldco.com/uploads/9/0/5/9/90592551/published/advance-care-planning-healthcare-directives_1.jpg?1579197896" style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 10px; margin-right: 0px; border-width:0; max-width:100%" alt="Picture" class="galleryImageBorder wsite-image" /></a><span style="display: table-caption; caption-side: bottom; font-size: 90%; margin-top: -0px; margin-bottom: 0px; text-align: center;" class="wsite-caption"></span></span> <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;display:block;">Advance care planning is not just about old age. At any age, a medical crisis could leave you too ill to make your own healthcare decisions. Even if you are not sick now, planning for health care in the future is an important step toward making sure you get the medical care you would want, if you are unable to speak for yourself and doctors and family members are making the decisions for you.<br /><br />Many Americans face questions about medical treatment but may not be capable of making those decisions, for example, in an emergency or at the end of life. This article will explain the types of decisions that may need to be made in such cases and questions you can think about now so you're prepared later. It can help you think about who you would want to make decisions for you if you can't make them yourself. It will also discuss ways you can share your wishes with others. Knowing who you want to make decisions on your behalf and how you would decide might take some of the burden off family and friends.</div> <hr style="width:100%;clear:both;visibility:hidden;"></hr>  <div>  <!--BLOG_SUMMARY_END--></div>  <h2 class="wsite-content-title">What Is Advance Care Planning?</h2>  <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span>Advance care planning involves learning about the types of decisions that might need to be made, considering those decisions ahead of time, and then letting others know&mdash;both your family and your healthcare providers&mdash;about your preferences. These preferences are often put into an&nbsp;</span><em>advance directive</em><span>, a legal document that goes into effect only if you are incapacitated and unable to speak for yourself. This could be the result of disease or severe injury&mdash;no matter how old you are. It helps others know what type of medical care you want.</span><br /><span>An advance directive also allows you to express your values and desires related to&nbsp;</span><a href="https://www.nia.nih.gov/health/what-end-life-care">end-of-life care</a><span>. You might think of it as a living document&mdash;one that you can adjust as your situation changes because of new information or a change in your health.</span></div>  <div id="497695158734890592"><div><style type="text/css">	#element-8e0db768-eef6-4d1e-92d2-e1b94eb6f3f5 .colored-box-content {  clear: both;  float: left;  width: 100%;  -moz-box-sizing: border-box;  -webkit-box-sizing: border-box;  -ms-box-sizing: border-box;  box-sizing: border-box;  background-color: rgba(223,202,163,0.6);  padding-top: 10px;  padding-bottom: 0px;  padding-left: 30px;  padding-right: 10px;  -webkit-border-top-left-radius: 0px;  -moz-border-top-left-radius: 0px;  border-top-left-radius: 0px;  -webkit-border-top-right-radius: 0px;  -moz-border-top-right-radius: 0px;  border-top-right-radius: 0px;  -webkit-border-bottom-left-radius: 0px;  -moz-border-bottom-left-radius: 0px;  border-bottom-left-radius: 0px;  -webkit-border-bottom-right-radius: 0px;  -moz-border-bottom-right-radius: 0px;  border-bottom-right-radius: 0px;}</style><div id="element-8e0db768-eef6-4d1e-92d2-e1b94eb6f3f5" data-platform-element-id="848857247979793891-1.0.1" class="platform-element-contents">	<div class="colored-box">    <div class="colored-box-content">        <div style="width: auto"><div></div><div class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><strong><font size="5">Medical Research and Advance Care Planning</font></strong><br /><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">Research shows that advance directives can make a difference, and that people who document their preferences in this way are more likely to get the care they prefer at the end of life than people who do not.</span></div></div>    </div></div></div><div style="clear:both;"></div></div></div>  <div class="wsite-spacer" style="height:33px;"></div>  <h2 class="wsite-content-title"><span>Advance Care Planning Decisions</span></h2>  <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span>&#8203;Sometimes&nbsp;</span><a href="https://www.nia.nih.gov/health/understanding-healthcare-decisions-end-life">decisions</a><span>&nbsp;must be made about the use of emergency treatments to keep you alive. Doctors can use several artificial or mechanical ways to try to do this. Decisions that might come up at this time relate to:</span><ul style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"><li>CPR (cardiopulmonary resuscitation)</li><li>Ventilator use</li><li>Artificial nutrition (tube feeding) and artificial hydration (IV, or intravenous, fluids)</li><li><a href="https://www.nia.nih.gov/health/providing-comfort-end-life">Comfort care</a></li></ul><br /><span>&#8203;What is CPR?</span><span>&nbsp;Cardiopulmonary resuscitation might restore your heartbeat if your heart stops or is in a life-threatening abnormal rhythm. It involves repeatedly pushing on the chest with force, while putting air into the lungs. This force has to be quite strong, and sometimes ribs are broken or a lung collapses. Electric shocks, known as defibrillation, and medicines might also be used as part of the process. The heart of a young, otherwise healthy person might resume beating normally after CPR. Often, CPR does not succeed in older adults who have multiple chronic illnesses or who are already frail.</span><br /><br /><span>Using a ventilator as emergency treatment.</span><span>&nbsp;Ventilators are machines that help you breathe. A tube connected to the ventilator is put through the throat into the trachea (windpipe) so the machine can force air into the lungs. Putting the tube down the throat is called intubation. Because the tube is uncomfortable, medicines are often used to keep you sedated while on a ventilator. If you are expected to remain on a ventilator for a long time, a doctor may perform a tracheotomy or "trach" (rhymes with "make"). During this bedside surgery, the tube is inserted directly into the trachea through a hole in the neck. For long-term help with breathing, a trach is more comfortable, and sedation is not needed. People using such a breathing tube are not able to speak without special help because exhaled air does not go past their vocal cords.</span><br /><br /><span>Using artificial nutrition and hydration near the end of life.</span><span>&nbsp;If you are not able to eat, you may be fed through a feeding tube that is threaded through the nose down to your stomach. If tube feeding is still needed for an extended period, a feeding tube may be surgically inserted directly into your stomach. Hand feeding (sometimes called assisted oral feeding) is an alternative to tube feeding. This approach may have fewer risks, especially for people with dementia.</span><br /><br /><span>If you are not able to drink, you may be provided with IV fluids. These are delivered through a thin plastic tube inserted into a vein.</span><br /><br /><span>Artificial nutrition and hydration can be helpful if you are recovering from an illness. However, studies have shown that artificial nutrition toward the end of life does not meaningfully prolong life. Artificial nutrition and hydration may also be harmful if the dying body cannot use the nutrition properly.</span><br /><br /><span>What is comfort care at the end of life?</span><span>&nbsp;Comfort care is anything that can be done to soothe you and relieve suffering while staying in line with your wishes. Comfort care includes managing shortness of breath; limiting medical testing; providing spiritual and emotional counseling; and giving medication for&nbsp;</span><a href="https://www.nia.nih.gov/health/pain">pain</a><span>, anxiety, nausea, or&nbsp;</span><a href="https://www.nia.nih.gov/health/concerned-about-constipation">constipation</a><span>.</span><br /><span>Learn more about&nbsp;</span><a href="https://www.nia.nih.gov/health/what-are-palliative-care-and-hospice-care">hospice care</a><span>&nbsp;and other&nbsp;</span><a href="https://www.nia.nih.gov/health/understanding-healthcare-decisions-end-life">healthcare decisions you may need to make at the end of life</a><span>.</span></div>  <h2 class="wsite-content-title">Getting Started with Advance Care Planning</h2>  <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span>Start by thinking about what kind of treatment you do or do not want in a medical emergency. It might help to talk with your doctor about how your current health conditions might influence your health in the future. For example, what decisions would you or your family face if your&nbsp;</span><a href="https://www.nia.nih.gov/health/high-blood-pressure">high blood pressure</a><span>&nbsp;leads to a&nbsp;</span><a href="https://www.nia.nih.gov/health/stroke">stroke</a><span>? You can ask your doctor to help you understand and think through your choices before you put them in writing. Discussing advance care planning decisions with your doctor is free through Medicare during your annual wellness visit. Private health insurance may also cover these discussions.</span><br /><br /><span>If you don't have any medical issues now, your family medical history might be a clue to help you think about the future.&nbsp;</span><a href="https://www.nia.nih.gov/health/how-choose-doctor-you-can-talk">Talk with your doctor</a><span>&nbsp;about decisions that might come up if you develop health problems similar to those of other family members.</span><br /><br /><span>In considering treatment decisions, your personal values are key. Is your main desire to have the most days of life? Or, would your focus be on quality of life, as you see it? What if an illness leaves you paralyzed or in a permanent coma and you need to be on a ventilator? Would you want that?</span><br /><span>What makes life meaningful to you? If your heart stops or you have trouble breathing, would you want to undergo life-saving measures if it meant that, in the future, you could be well enough to spend time with your family? Would you be content if the emergency leaves you simply able to spend your days listening to books on tape or gazing out the window?</span><br /><br /><span>But, there are many other scenarios. Here are a few. What would you decide?</span><ul style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"><li>If a stroke leaves you unable to move and then your heart stops, would you want CPR? What if you were also mentally impaired by a stroke&mdash;does your decision change?</li><li>What if you are in pain at the end of life? Do you want medication to treat the pain, even if it will make you more drowsy and lethargic?</li><li>What if you are permanently unconscious and then develop pneumonia? Would you want antibiotics and to be placed on a ventilator?</li></ul> <span><br />For some people, staying alive as long as medically possible, or long enough to see an important event like a grandchild's wedding, is the most important thing. An advance directive can help to make that possible. Others have a clear idea about when they would no longer want to prolong their life. An advance directive can help with that, too.<br />&#8203;</span><br /><span>Your decisions about how to handle any of these situations could be different at age 40 than at age 85. Or, they could be different if you have an incurable condition as opposed to being generally healthy. An advance directive allows you to provide instructions for these types of situations and then to change the instructions as you get older or if your viewpoint changes.</span></div>  <div id="941941174928738112"><div><style type="text/css">	#element-41c9bb91-1981-47af-bcb1-6ca81400c334 .colored-box-content {  clear: both;  float: left;  width: 100%;  -moz-box-sizing: border-box;  -webkit-box-sizing: border-box;  -ms-box-sizing: border-box;  box-sizing: border-box;  background-color: rgba(223,202,163,0.6);  padding-top: 10px;  padding-bottom: 0px;  padding-left: 30px;  padding-right: 10px;  -webkit-border-top-left-radius: 0px;  -moz-border-top-left-radius: 0px;  border-top-left-radius: 0px;  -webkit-border-top-right-radius: 0px;  -moz-border-top-right-radius: 0px;  border-top-right-radius: 0px;  -webkit-border-bottom-left-radius: 0px;  -moz-border-bottom-left-radius: 0px;  border-bottom-left-radius: 0px;  -webkit-border-bottom-right-radius: 0px;  -moz-border-bottom-right-radius: 0px;  border-bottom-right-radius: 0px;}</style><div id="element-41c9bb91-1981-47af-bcb1-6ca81400c334" data-platform-element-id="848857247979793891-1.0.1" class="platform-element-contents">	<div class="colored-box">    <div class="colored-box-content">        <div style="width: auto"><div></div><div class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><strong><font size="5">Do You or a Family Member Have Alzheimer's Disease?</font></strong><br />Many people are unprepared to deal with the legal and financial consequences of a serious illness such as&nbsp;<a href="https://www.nia.nih.gov/health/what-alzheimers-disease">Alzheimer's disease</a>. Advance planning can help people with Alzheimer's and their families clarify their wishes and make well-informed decisions about health care and financial arrangements.<br /><a href="https://www.nia.nih.gov/health/legal-and-financial-planning-people-alzheimers">Learn more about legal and financial planning for people with Alzheimer's disease</a>.</div></div>    </div></div></div><div style="clear:both;"></div></div></div>  <div class="wsite-spacer" style="height:50px;"></div>  <h2 class="wsite-content-title">Making Your Advance Care Wishes Known</h2>  <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span>There are two main elements in an advance directive&mdash;a living will and a durable power of attorney for health care. There are also other documents that can supplement your advance directive. You can choose which documents to create, depending on how you want decisions to be made. These documents include:</span><ul style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"><li>Living will</li><li>Durable power of attorney for health care</li><li>Other advance care planning documents</li></ul><br /><span><strong>Living will.</strong></span><strong><span>&nbsp;&nbsp;</span></strong><span>A living will is a written document that helps you tell doctors how you want to be treated if you are dying or permanently unconscious and cannot make your own decisions about emergency treatment. In a living will, you can say which of the procedures described in the&nbsp;</span><a href="https://www.nia.nih.gov/health/advance-care-planning-healthcare-directives#decisions">Decisions That Could Come Up section</a><span>&nbsp;you would want, which ones you wouldn't want, and under which conditions each of your choices applies.</span><br /><br /><strong><span>Durable power of attorney for health care.</span></strong><span>&nbsp;A durable power of attorney for health care is a legal document naming a healthcare proxy, someone to make medical decisions for you at times when you are unable to do so. Your proxy, also known as a representative, surrogate, or agent, should be familiar with your values and wishes. This means that he or she will be able to decide as you would when treatment decisions need to be made. A proxy can be chosen in addition to or instead of a living will. Having a healthcare proxy helps you plan for situations that cannot be foreseen, like a serious auto accident.</span><br /><br /><span>Some people are reluctant to put specific health decisions in writing. For them, naming a healthcare agent might be a good approach, especially if there is someone they feel comfortable talking with about their values and preferences. A named proxy can evaluate each situation or treatment option independently.</span><br /><br /><strong><span>Other advance care planning documents.</span></strong><span>&nbsp;You might also want to prepare documents to express your wishes about a single medical issue or something not already covered in your advance directive. A living will usually covers only the specific life-sustaining treatments discussed earlier. You might want to give your healthcare proxy specific instructions about other issues, such as blood transfusion or kidney dialysis. This is especially important if your doctor suggests that, given your health condition, such treatments might be needed in the future.</span><br /><span>Medical issues that might arise at the end of life include:</span><ul style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"><li>DNR orders</li><li>Organ and tissue donation</li><li>POLST and MOLST forms</li></ul><br /><span>A&nbsp;</span><span>DNR (do not resuscitate) order</span><span>&nbsp;tells medical staff in a hospital or nursing facility that you do not want them to try to return your heart to a normal rhythm if it stops or is beating unsustainably using CPR or other life-support measures. Sometimes this document is referred to as a DNAR (do not attempt resuscitation) or an AND (allow natural death) order. Even though a living will might say CPR is not wanted, it is helpful to have a DNR order as part of your medical file if you go to a hospital. Posting a DNR next to your bed might avoid confusion in an emergency situation. Without a DNR order, medical staff will make every effort to restore your breathing and the normal rhythm of your heart.</span><br /><br /><span>A similar document, called a&nbsp;</span><span>DNI (do not intubate) order,</span><span>&nbsp;tells medical staff in a hospital or nursing facility that you do not want to be put on a breathing machine.</span><br /><br /><span>A&nbsp;</span><span>non-hospital DNR order</span><span>&nbsp;will alert emergency medical personnel to your wishes regarding measures to restore your heartbeat or breathing if you are not in the hospital.</span><br /><br /><span>Organ and tissue donation</span><span>&nbsp;allow organs or body parts from a generally healthy person who has died to be transplanted into people who need them. Commonly, the heart, lungs, pancreas, kidneys, corneas, liver, and skin are donated. There is no age limit for organ and tissue donation. You can carry a donation card in your wallet. Some states allow you to add this decision to your driver's license. Some people also include organ donation in their advance care planning documents.</span><br /><br /><span>At the time of death, family members may be asked about organ donation. If those close to you, especially your proxy, know how you feel about&nbsp;</span><a href="https://www.nia.nih.gov/health/organ-donation-resources-older-donors-and-recipients">organ donation</a><span>, they will be ready to respond. There is no cost to the donor's family for this gift of life. If the person has requested a DNR order but wants to donate organs, he or she might have to indicate that the desire to donate supersedes the DNR. That is because it might be necessary to use machines to keep the heart beating until the medical staff is ready to remove the donated organs.</span><br /><br /><span>POLST and MOLST forms</span><span>&nbsp;provide guidance about your medical care preferences in the form of a doctor's orders. Typically you create a POLST (Physician Orders for Life-Sustaining Treatment) or MOLST (Medical Orders for Life-Sustaining Treatment) when you are near the end of life or critically ill and know the specific decisions that might need to be made on your behalf. These forms serve as a medical order in addition to your advance directive. They make it possible for you to provide guidance that healthcare professionals can act on immediately in an emergency.</span><br /><br /><span>A number of states use POLST and MOLST forms, which are filled out by your doctor or sometimes by a nurse practitioner or physician's assistant. The doctor fills out a POLST or MOLST after discussing your wishes with you and your family. Once signed by your doctor, this form has the same authority as any other medical order. Check with your state department of health to find out if these forms are available where you live.</span><br /></div>  <div id="576708453433507016"><div><style type="text/css">	#element-159a912d-e583-4114-8706-90213f47ab1a .colored-box-content {  clear: both;  float: left;  width: 100%;  -moz-box-sizing: border-box;  -webkit-box-sizing: border-box;  -ms-box-sizing: border-box;  box-sizing: border-box;  background-color: rgba(223,202,163,0.6);  padding-top: 10px;  padding-bottom: 0px;  padding-left: 30px;  padding-right: 10px;  -webkit-border-top-left-radius: 0px;  -moz-border-top-left-radius: 0px;  border-top-left-radius: 0px;  -webkit-border-top-right-radius: 0px;  -moz-border-top-right-radius: 0px;  border-top-right-radius: 0px;  -webkit-border-bottom-left-radius: 0px;  -moz-border-bottom-left-radius: 0px;  border-bottom-left-radius: 0px;  -webkit-border-bottom-right-radius: 0px;  -moz-border-bottom-right-radius: 0px;  border-bottom-right-radius: 0px;}</style><div id="element-159a912d-e583-4114-8706-90213f47ab1a" data-platform-element-id="848857247979793891-1.0.1" class="platform-element-contents">	<div class="colored-box">    <div class="colored-box-content">        <div style="width: auto"><div></div><div class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><strong><font size="5">Advance Care Planning: Pacemakers and ICDs</font></strong><br />Some people have pacemakers to help their hearts beat regularly. If you have one and are near death, it may not necessarily keep you alive. But, you might have an ICD (implantable cardioverter-defibrillator) placed under your skin to shock your heart back into regular beatings if the rhythm becomes irregular. If you decline other life-sustaining measures, the ICD may be turned off. You need to state in your advance directive what you want done if the doctor suggests it is time to turn it off.</div></div>    </div></div></div><div style="clear:both;"></div></div></div>  <div class="wsite-spacer" style="height:30px;"></div>  <h2 class="wsite-content-title"><span>How to Choose Your Healthcare Proxy</span><br /></h2>  <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span>&#8203;If you decide to choose a proxy, think about people you know who share your views and values about life and medical decisions. Your proxy might be a family member, a friend, your lawyer, or someone in your social or spiritual community. It's a good idea to also name an alternate proxy. It is especially important to have a detailed living will if you choose not to name a proxy.</span><br /><br /><span>You can decide how much authority your proxy has over your medical care&mdash;whether he or she is entitled to make a wide range of decisions or only a few specific ones. Try not to include guidelines that make it impossible for the proxy to fulfill his or her duties. For example, it's probably not unusual for someone to say in conversation, "I don't want to go to a&nbsp;</span><a href="https://www.nia.nih.gov/health/choosing-nursing-home">nursing home</a><span>," but think carefully about whether you want a restriction like that in your advance directive. Sometimes, for financial or medical reasons, that may be the best choice for you.</span><br /><br /><span>Of course, check with those you choose as your healthcare proxy and alternate before you name them officially. Make sure they are comfortable with this responsibility.</span><span>&#8203;</span></div>  <h2 class="wsite-content-title"><span>Making Your Healthcare Directives Official</span>&#8203;</h2>  <div class="paragraph"><span>Once you have talked with your doctor and have an idea of the types of decisions that could come up in the future and whom you would like as a proxy, if you want one at all, the next step is to fill out the legal forms detailing your wishes. A lawyer can help but is not required. If you decide to use a lawyer, don't depend on him or her to help you understand different medical treatments. Start the planning process by talking with your doctor.</span><br /><br /><span>Many states have their own advance directive forms. Your&nbsp;</span><a href="https://eldercare.acl.gov/">local Area Agency on Aging</a><span>&nbsp;can help you locate the right forms. You can find your area agency phone number by calling the Eldercare Locator toll-free at&nbsp;</span><span>1-800-677-1116</span><span>or by visiting&nbsp;</span><a href="https://eldercare.acl.gov/">https://eldercare.acl.gov</a><span>.</span><br /><br /><span>Some states require your advance directive to be witnessed; a few require your signature to be notarized. A notary is a person licensed by the state to witness signatures. You might find a notary at your bank, post office, or local library, or call your insurance agent. Some notaries charge a fee.</span><br /><span>Some states have registries that can store your advance directive for quick access by healthcare providers, your proxy, and anyone else to whom you have given permission. Private firms also will store your advance directive. There may be a fee for storing your form in a registry. If you store your advance directive in a registry and later make changes, you must replace the original with the updated version in the registry.</span><br /><br /><span>Some people spend a lot of time in more than one state&mdash;for example, visiting children and grandchildren. If that's your situation, consider preparing an advance directive using forms for each state&mdash;and keep a copy in each place, too.</span></div>  <h2 class="wsite-content-title" style="text-align:left;"><span>What to Do After You Set Up Your Advance Directive</span></h2>  <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span>Give copies of your advance directive to your healthcare proxy and alternate proxy. Give your doctor a copy for your medical records. Tell close family members and friends where you keep a copy. If you have to go to the hospital, give staff there a copy to include in your records. Because you might change your advance directive in the future, it's a good idea to keep track of who receives a copy.</span><br /><br /><span>Review your advance care planning decisions from time to time&mdash;for example, every 10 years, if not more often. You might want to revise your preferences for care if your situation or your health changes. Or, you might want to make adjustments if you receive a serious diagnosis; if you get married, separated, or divorced; if your spouse dies; or if something happens to your proxy or alternate. If your preferences change, you will want to make sure your doctor, proxy, and family know about them.</span></div>  <div id="603410330434756802"><div><style type="text/css">	#element-fd32db70-4fbf-44cd-9eea-d0efc02c05f8 .colored-box-content {  clear: both;  float: left;  width: 100%;  -moz-box-sizing: border-box;  -webkit-box-sizing: border-box;  -ms-box-sizing: border-box;  box-sizing: border-box;  background-color: rgba(223,202,163,0.6);  padding-top: 10px;  padding-bottom: 0px;  padding-left: 30px;  padding-right: 10px;  -webkit-border-top-left-radius: 0px;  -moz-border-top-left-radius: 0px;  border-top-left-radius: 0px;  -webkit-border-top-right-radius: 0px;  -moz-border-top-right-radius: 0px;  border-top-right-radius: 0px;  -webkit-border-bottom-left-radius: 0px;  -moz-border-bottom-left-radius: 0px;  border-bottom-left-radius: 0px;  -webkit-border-bottom-right-radius: 0px;  -moz-border-bottom-right-radius: 0px;  border-bottom-right-radius: 0px;}</style><div id="element-fd32db70-4fbf-44cd-9eea-d0efc02c05f8" data-platform-element-id="848857247979793891-1.0.1" class="platform-element-contents">	<div class="colored-box">    <div class="colored-box-content">        <div style="width: auto"><div></div><div class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><strong><font size="5">Talking About Your Advance Care Wishes<br /></font></strong>It can be helpful to have conversations with the people close to you about how you want to be cared for in a medical emergency or at the end of life. These talks can help you think through the wishes you want to put in your advance directive.<br />It's especially helpful to talk about your thoughts, beliefs, and values with your healthcare proxy. This will help prepare him or her to make medical decisions that best reflect your values.<br />After you have completed your advance directive, talk about your decisions with your healthcare proxy, loved ones, and your doctor to explain what you have decided. This way, they are not surprised by your wishes if there is an emergency.<br />Another way to convey your wishes is to make a video of yourself talking about them. This lets you express your wishes in your own words. Videos do not replace an advance directive, but they can be helpful for your healthcare proxy and your loved ones.</div></div>    </div></div></div><div style="clear:both;"></div></div></div>  <div class="wsite-spacer" style="height:25px;"></div>  <h2 class="wsite-content-title"><span>Be Prepared</span></h2>  <div class="paragraph">What happens if you have no advance directive or have made no plans and you become unable to speak for yourself? In such cases, the state where you live will assign someone to make medical decisions on your behalf. This will probably be your spouse, your parents if they are available, or your children if they are adults. If you have no family members, the state will choose someone to represent your best interests.<br />&#8203;<br /><span>Always remember: an advance directive is only used if you are in danger of dying and need certain emergency or special measures to keep you alive,&nbsp;<em>but you are not able to make those decisions on your own</em>. An advance directive allows you to make your wishes about medical treatment known.</span><br />It is difficult to predict the future with certainty. You may never face a medical situation where you are unable to speak for yourself and make your wishes known. But having an advance directive may give you and those close to you some peace of mind.</div>  <div id="937242294644790766"><div><style type="text/css">	#element-979993a9-79cb-47f4-924f-2fcb043e8946 .colored-box-content {  clear: both;  float: left;  width: 100%;  -moz-box-sizing: border-box;  -webkit-box-sizing: border-box;  -ms-box-sizing: border-box;  box-sizing: border-box;  background-color: rgba(223,202,163,0.6);  padding-top: 10px;  padding-bottom: 0px;  padding-left: 30px;  padding-right: 10px;  -webkit-border-top-left-radius: 0px;  -moz-border-top-left-radius: 0px;  border-top-left-radius: 0px;  -webkit-border-top-right-radius: 0px;  -moz-border-top-right-radius: 0px;  border-top-right-radius: 0px;  -webkit-border-bottom-left-radius: 0px;  -moz-border-bottom-left-radius: 0px;  border-bottom-left-radius: 0px;  -webkit-border-bottom-right-radius: 0px;  -moz-border-bottom-right-radius: 0px;  border-bottom-right-radius: 0px;}</style><div id="element-979993a9-79cb-47f4-924f-2fcb043e8946" data-platform-element-id="848857247979793891-1.0.1" class="platform-element-contents">	<div class="colored-box">    <div class="colored-box-content">        <div style="width: auto"><div></div><div class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><strong>Advance Directive Wallet Card</strong><br />You might want to make a card to carry in your wallet indicating that you have an advance directive and where it is kept. Here is an example of the wallet card offered by the American Hospital Association. You might want to print this to fill out and carry with you. A PDF can be found&nbsp;<a href="https://www.aha.org/system/files/2018-01/piiw-walletcard.pdf" target="_blank">online</a>&nbsp;(PDF, 40 KB).</div><div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-none " style="padding-top:0px;padding-bottom:20px;margin-left:0px;margin-right:0px;text-align:center"><a><img src="https://www.familyshieldco.com/uploads/9/0/5/9/90592551/piiw-walletcard-cropped_orig.jpg" alt="Picture" style="width:auto;max-width:100%" /></a><div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div></div></div></div>    </div></div></div><div style="clear:both;"></div></div></div>  <div class="wsite-spacer" style="height:37px;"></div>  <h2 class="wsite-content-title" style="text-align:left;">For More Information About Healthcare Directives</h2>  <div class="paragraph"><strong><span>CaringInfo</span></strong><br />National Hospice and Palliative Care Organization<br />1-800-658-8898 (toll-free)<br /><a href="mailto:caringinfo@nhpco.org">caringinfo@nhpco.org</a><br /><a href="http://www.caringinfo.org/" target="_blank">www.caringinfo.org<br /></a><br /><span><strong><span>Center for Practical Bioethics</span><br /></strong>1-800-344-3829 (toll-free)<br /><a href="mailto:info@practicalbioethics.org">center@centerforbioethics.org</a><br /><a href="http://www.practicalbioethics.org/" target="_blank">www.practicalbioethics.org</a></span><br /><span>OrganDonor.gov<br /></span><br /><strong>Health Resources &amp; Services Administration<br /></strong><a href="http://www.organdonor.gov/">www.organdonor.gov<br /></a><br /><strong><span>National POLST Paradigm</span><br /></strong>1-202-780-8352<br /><a href="mailto:info@polst.org">info@polst.org</a><br /><a href="http://www.polst.org/" target="_blank">www.polst.org</a><br /><span>Put It In Writing</span>&nbsp;<br />&#8203;<br /><strong>American Hospital Association&nbsp;<br /></strong>1-800-424-4301&nbsp;<br /><a href="https://www.aha.org/2017-12-11-put-it-writing" target="_blank">https://www.aha.org/2017-12-11-put-it-writing</a></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Getting Your Affairs in Order]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.familyshieldco.com/news/getting-your-affairs-in-order]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.familyshieldco.com/news/getting-your-affairs-in-order#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Fri, 17 Jan 2020 06:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.familyshieldco.com/news/getting-your-affairs-in-order</guid><description><![CDATA[ 	 		 			 				 					 						          					 								 					 						  Ben has been married for 47 years. He always managed the family&rsquo;s money. But since his stroke, Ben is not able to walk or talk. His wife, Shirley, feels overwhelmed. Of course, she&rsquo;s worried about Ben&rsquo;s health. But, on top of that, she has no idea what bills should be paid or when they are due.&nbsp;Across town, 80-year-old Louise lives alone. One night, she fell in the kitchen and broke her hip. She spent a week [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div class="wsite-multicol"><div class="wsite-multicol-table-wrap" style="margin:0 -15px;"> 	<table class="wsite-multicol-table"> 		<tbody class="wsite-multicol-tbody"> 			<tr class="wsite-multicol-tr"> 				<td class="wsite-multicol-col" style="width:39.777777777778%; padding:0 15px;"> 					 						  <div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-none " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0;margin-right:0;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="https://www.familyshieldco.com/uploads/9/0/5/9/90592551/woman-wearing-brown-dungaree-pants-holding-sunhat-and-picnic-2050981_orig.jpg" alt="Picture" style="width:auto;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>   					 				</td>				<td class="wsite-multicol-col" style="width:60.222222222222%; padding:0 15px;"> 					 						  <div class="paragraph"><span>Ben has been married for 47 years. He always managed the family&rsquo;s money. But since his stroke, Ben is not able to walk or talk. His wife, Shirley, feels overwhelmed. Of course, she&rsquo;s worried about Ben&rsquo;s health. But, on top of that, she has no idea what bills should be paid or when they are due.&nbsp;</span><br /><span>Across town, 80-year-old Louise lives alone. One night, she fell in the kitchen and broke her hip. She spent a week in the hospital and 2 months in a rehabilitation nursing home. Even though her son lives across the country, he was able to pay her bills and handle her Medicare questions right away. That&rsquo;s because, several years ago, Louise and her son made a plan about what he should do in case Louise had a medical emergency.&nbsp;</span>&#8203;</div>   					 				</td>			</tr> 		</tbody> 	</table> </div></div></div>  <div>  <!--BLOG_SUMMARY_END--></div>  <div class="paragraph"><strong>Plan for the Future&nbsp;</strong><br />No one ever plans to be sick or disabled. Yet, it&rsquo;s this kind of planning that can make all the difference in an emergency.&nbsp;Long before she fell, Louise put all her important papers in one place and told her&nbsp;&nbsp;<br />son where to find them. She gave him the&nbsp;name of her lawyer, as well as a list of people he could contact at her bank, doctor&rsquo;s office, insurance company, and investment firm. She made sure he had copies of her Medicare and other health insurance cards. She added her son&rsquo;s name to her checking account and safe deposit box at the bank. Louise made sure Medicare and her doctor had written permission to talk with her son about her health and insurance claims.&nbsp;<br />On the other hand, Ben always took care of family money matters, and he never talked about the details with Shirley. No one but Ben knew that his life insurance policy was in a box in the closet or that the car title and deed to the house were filed in his desk drawer. Ben never expected that his wife would have to take over. His lack&nbsp;of planning has made a tough job even tougher for Shirley.&nbsp;<br /><br /><strong>What Exactly Is an &ldquo;Important Paper&rdquo;?&nbsp;</strong><br />The answer to this question may be different for every family. Remember, this is a starting place. You may have other information to add. For example, if you have a pet, you will want to include the name and address of your veterinarian. Include complete information about:&nbsp;<br /><br /><strong>Personal Records&nbsp;</strong><ul><li>Full legal name&nbsp;</li><li>Social Security number&nbsp;</li><li>Legal residence&nbsp;</li><li>Date and place of birth&nbsp;</li><li>Names and addresses of spouse and children&nbsp;</li><li>Location of birth and death certificates and certificates of marriage, divorce, citizenship, and adoption&nbsp;</li><li>Employers and dates of employment&nbsp;</li><li>Education and military records&nbsp;</li><li>Names and phone numbers of religious contacts&nbsp;</li><li>Memberships in groups and awards received</li><li>Names and phone numbers of close friends, relatives, doctors, lawyers, and financial advisors&nbsp;</li><li>Medications taken regularly (be sure to update this regularly)</li><li>Location of living will and other legal documents&nbsp;</li></ul>&#8203;<br /><strong>Steps for Getting Your Affairs in Order&nbsp;</strong><ul><li><strong>Put your important papers and copies of legal documents in one place.&nbsp;</strong>You can set up a file, put everything in a desk or dresser drawer, or list the information and location of papers in a notebook. If your papers are in a bank safe deposit box, keep copies in a file at home. Check each year to see if there&rsquo;s anything new to add.&nbsp;</li><li><strong>Tell a trusted family member or friend where you put all your important papers.&nbsp;</strong>You don&rsquo;t need to tell this friend or family member about your personal affairs, but someone should know where you keep your papers in case of an emergency. If you don&rsquo;t have a relative or friend you trust, ask a lawyer to help.&nbsp;</li><li><strong>Discuss your end-of-life preferences with your doctor.&nbsp;</strong>He or she can explain what health decisions you may have to make in the future and what treatment options are available. Talking with your doctor can help ensure your wishes are honored, and the visit may be covered by insurance.&nbsp;</li><li><strong>Give permission in advance for your doctor or lawyer to talk with your caregiver as needed.&nbsp;</strong>There may be questions about your care, a bill, or a health insurance claim. Without your consent, your caregiver may not be able to get needed information. You can give your okay in advance to Medicare, a credit card company, your bank, or your doctor. You may need to sign and return a form.&nbsp;</li></ul><br /><strong>Financial Records&nbsp;</strong><ul><li>Sources of income and assets (pension from your employer, IRAs, 401(k)s, interest, etc.)</li><li>Social Security and Medicare/Medicaid information&nbsp;</li><li>Insurance information (life, health, long- term care, home, car) with policy numbers and agents&rsquo; names and phone numbers</li><li>Names of your banks and account numbers (checking, savings, credit union)&nbsp;&#9632;&nbsp;Investment income (stocks, bonds, property) and stockbrokers&rsquo; names and phone numbers&nbsp;</li><li>Copy of most recent income tax return&nbsp;</li><li>Location of most up-to-date will with an original signature&nbsp;</li><li>Liabilities, including property tax&mdash; what is owed, to whom, and when payments are due&nbsp;</li><li>Mortgages and debts&mdash;how and when they are paid</li><li>Location of original deed of trust&nbsp;for home&nbsp;</li><li>Car title and registration&nbsp;</li><li>Credit and debit card names and numbers&nbsp;</li><li>Location of safe deposit box and key&nbsp;</li></ul><br /><strong>Legal Documents&nbsp;</strong><br />There are many different types of legal documents that can help you plan how your affairs will be handled in the future. Many of these documents have names that sound&nbsp;<br />alike, so make sure you are getting the documents you want. Also, State laws vary, so find out about the rules, requirements, and forms used in your State.&nbsp;<br /><em>Wills&nbsp;</em>and&nbsp;<em>trusts&nbsp;</em>let you name the person you want your money and property to go to after you die.&nbsp;<br /><em>Advance directives&nbsp;</em>let you make arrangements for your care if you become sick. Two common types of advance directives are:&nbsp;<ul><li>A&nbsp;<em>living will&nbsp;</em>gives you a say in your health care if you become too sick to make your wishes known. In a living will, you can state what kind of care you do or don&rsquo;t want. This can make it easier for family members to make tough healthcare decisions for you.&nbsp;</li><li>A&nbsp;<em>durable power of attorney for health care&nbsp;</em>lets you name the person you want to make medical decisions for you if you can&rsquo;t make them yourself. Make sure the person you name is willing to make those decisions for you.&nbsp;</li><li>For legal matters, there are ways to give someone you trust the power to act in your place.&nbsp;</li><li>A&nbsp;<em>general power of attorney&nbsp;</em>lets you give someone else the authority to act on your behalf, but this power will end if you are unable to make your own decisions.&nbsp;</li><li>A&nbsp;<em>durable power of attorney&nbsp;</em>allows you to name someone to act on your behalf for any legal task, but it stays in place if you become unable to make your own decisions.&nbsp;</li></ul><br /><strong>Help for Getting Your Papers in Order&nbsp;</strong><br />You may want to talk with a lawyer about setting up a general power of attorney, durable power of attorney, joint account, trust, or advance directive. Be sure to ask about the lawyer&rsquo;s fees before you make an appointment.&nbsp;<br />You should be able to find a directory of local lawyers on the internet or at your local library, or you can contact your local bar association for lawyers in your area. Your local bar association can also help you find what free legal aid options your State has to offer. An informed family member may be able to help you manage some of these issues.&nbsp;<br />&#8203;<br /></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Super-Agers: This Special Group of Older Adults Suggests You Can Keep Your Brain Young and Spry]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.familyshieldco.com/news/super-agers-this-special-group-of-older-adults-suggests-you-can-keep-your-brain-young-and-spry]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.familyshieldco.com/news/super-agers-this-special-group-of-older-adults-suggests-you-can-keep-your-brain-young-and-spry#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Thu, 16 Jan 2020 19:08:05 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.familyshieldco.com/news/super-agers-this-special-group-of-older-adults-suggests-you-can-keep-your-brain-young-and-spry</guid><description><![CDATA[POSTED JULY 05, 2017, 10:30 AMMatthew Solan,&nbsp;Executive Editor,&nbsp;Harvard Men's Health Watch   	 		 			 				 					 						          					 								 					 						  My Facebook page is a collection of links to stories about inspirational people. Almost all have a common theme &mdash; older people who do extraordinary things. Some of my favorite stories, though, involve those with acute mental prowess. This special group of adults ages 60 to 80, called &ldquo;super-agers,&rdquo; have a higher r [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="paragraph">POSTED JULY 05, 2017, 10:30 AM<br /><a href="https://www.health.harvard.edu/blog/author/msolan">Matthew Solan</a>,&nbsp;Executive Editor,&nbsp;<em>Harvard Men's Health Watch</em></div>  <div><div class="wsite-multicol"><div class="wsite-multicol-table-wrap" style="margin:0 -15px;"> 	<table class="wsite-multicol-table"> 		<tbody class="wsite-multicol-tbody"> 			<tr class="wsite-multicol-tr"> 				<td class="wsite-multicol-col" style="width:39.333333333333%; padding:0 15px;"> 					 						  <div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-none " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0;margin-right:0;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="https://www.familyshieldco.com/uploads/9/0/5/9/90592551/istock-609419576-768x561_orig.jpg" alt="Picture" style="width:auto;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>   					 				</td>				<td class="wsite-multicol-col" style="width:60.666666666667%; padding:0 15px;"> 					 						  <div class="paragraph"><span style="color:rgb(68, 68, 68)">My Facebook page is a collection of links to stories about inspirational people. Almost all have a common theme &mdash; older people who do extraordinary things. Some of my favorite stories, though, involve those with acute mental prowess. This special group of adults ages 60 to 80, called &ldquo;super-agers,&rdquo; have a higher resistance to natural brain aging and thus can keep their gray cells young and vibrant.</span></div>   					 				</td>			</tr> 		</tbody> 	</table> </div></div></div>  <div>  <!--BLOG_SUMMARY_END--></div>  <div class="paragraph"><font size="6">The science of super brains<br /></font><br />What makes super-agers&rsquo; brains so super? A&nbsp;<a href="http://www.jneurosci.org/content/36/37/9659" target="_blank">small study</a>&nbsp;published in&nbsp;<em>The Journal of Neuroscience</em>&nbsp;looked at this question. Researchers enrolled 44 adults ages 60 to 80 and found that those who performed well on memory tests had brains with youthful characteristics. Specifically, the cortexes of their brains &mdash; the outermost layer of brain cells essential to many thinking abilities &mdash; were comparable in size to those of the younger adults in a control group. Scans found that the brain regions associated with the ability to learn and remember new information &mdash; which include the hippocampus and medial prefrontal cortex &mdash; were larger in super-agers than in normal older adults.<br />Lead researcher Dr. Bradford Dickerson, associate professor of neurology at Harvard-affiliated Massachusetts General Hospital, said that one of the most surprising findings was that the size of the super-agers&rsquo; brains did not fall somewhere between the younger people and the other older adults. &ldquo;Their brain size was close to equal to that of the younger subjects, which suggests that the brain size was preserved,&rdquo; he says.<br /><br /><font size="6">Wouldn&rsquo;t you like to be a super-ager too?<br /><br /></font>Are super-agers born or made? Probably a little of both, says Dr. Dickerson. &ldquo;There may be a genetic component that makes them more resilient to natural aging, but it also may be associated with lifestyle habits,&rdquo; he says.<br />&#8203;<br />So, can you become a super-ager? While you may not be able to transport your brain back to your 20s, it may be possible to maintain and even improve some cognitive function with a combined approach to treatment, says Dr. Dickerson. For example:<ul style="color:rgb(68, 68, 68)"><li><strong style="color:rgb(43, 43, 43)">Do regular aerobic exercise.&nbsp;</strong>Research has suggested that aerobic exercise can improve cognitive function, even if you begin later in life or have shown signs of mental decline. A&nbsp;<a href="https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2016/11/161130130916.htm" target="_blank">study presented at the 2016 annual meeting</a>&nbsp;of the Radiological Society of North America found that older adults (average age 67) with mild cognitive impairment who exercised four times a week over a six-month period (using either a treadmill, a stationary bike, or an elliptical trainer) experienced an increase in brain volume and better executive function.</li><li><strong style="color:rgb(43, 43, 43)">Get plenty of sleep.&nbsp;</strong>Using MRI scans,&nbsp;<a href="http://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S1053811915011416" target="_blank">a study</a>&nbsp;in&nbsp;<em>NeuroImage</em>&nbsp;looked at the brains of 41 healthy men who were deprived of sleep for one night. The researchers found that compared with those who&rsquo;d had a regular night&rsquo;s sleep, they showed a decline in memory and attention. Older adults often have trouble falling asleep or staying asleep, problems that may reflect drug side effects or health conditions. See your doctor if you have sleep issues.</li><li><strong style="color:rgb(43, 43, 43)">Lower anxiety with meditation.&nbsp;</strong>Chronic levels of anxiety may speed up the conversion to Alzheimer&rsquo;s disease in people with mild cognitive impairment (MCI). In fact,&nbsp;<a href="http://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S1064748114003066" target="_blank">a 2014 study</a>&nbsp;in&nbsp;<em>The American</em><em>&nbsp;Journal of Geriatric Psychiatry</em>&nbsp;found that in MCI patients with mild, moderate, or severe anxiety, Alzheimer&rsquo;s risk increased by 33%, 78%, and 135%, respectively. Mindfulness meditation can help lower anxiety levels, according to&nbsp;<a href="http://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0165178116308472" target="_blank">findings published online</a>&nbsp;earlier this year by&nbsp;<em>Psychiatry Research</em>. Meditation programs for beginners are offered at many yoga studios and senior centers. You can try a&nbsp;<a href="http://www.mindfulness-solution.com/" target="_blank">free online guided meditation exercise</a>&nbsp;from Ronald Siegel, an assistant clinical professor of psychology at Harvard Medical School.</li></ul></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Preventing Falls in Older Adults: Multiple Strategies are Better]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.familyshieldco.com/news/preventing-falls-in-older-adults-multiple-strategies-are-better]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.familyshieldco.com/news/preventing-falls-in-older-adults-multiple-strategies-are-better#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Thu, 16 Jan 2020 19:05:03 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.familyshieldco.com/news/preventing-falls-in-older-adults-multiple-strategies-are-better</guid><description><![CDATA[&#8203;POSTED OCTOBER 22, 2019, 10:30 AMBrad Manor, PhD,&nbsp;Contributor   Despite&nbsp;considerable research and clinical effort, falls among people 65 and older are on the rise. An older adult is treated in the emergency room for a fall every 11 seconds, with injuries ranging from simple cuts and bruises to broken bones. Hip fractures are the most serious injury from falls, and more than half of older adults hospitalized for hip fractures after a fall never regain their previous levels of mob [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="paragraph">&#8203;POSTED OCTOBER 22, 2019, 10:30 AM<br /><a href="https://www.health.harvard.edu/blog/author/bmanor">Brad Manor, PhD</a>,&nbsp;Contributor</div>  <span class='imgPusher' style='float:right;height:0px'></span><span style='display: table;width:auto;position:relative;float:right;max-width:100%;;clear:right;margin-top:0px;*margin-top:0px'><a><img src="https://www.familyshieldco.com/uploads/9/0/5/9/90592551/published/gettyimages-959406368-640x427.jpg?1579201587" style="margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 10px; margin-right: 10px; border-width:0; max-width:100%" alt="Picture" class="galleryImageBorder wsite-image" /></a><span style="display: table-caption; caption-side: bottom; font-size: 90%; margin-top: -0px; margin-bottom: 0px; text-align: center;" class="wsite-caption"></span></span> <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;display:block;"><span style="color:rgb(68, 68, 68)">Despite&nbsp;</span><a href="https://www.cdc.gov/homeandrecreationalsafety/falls/" target="_blank">considerable research and clinical effort</a><span style="color:rgb(68, 68, 68)">, falls among people 65 and older are on the rise. An older adult is treated in the emergency room for a fall every 11 seconds, with injuries ranging from simple cuts and bruises to broken bones. Hip fractures are the most serious injury from falls, and more than half of older adults hospitalized for hip fractures after a fall never regain their previous levels of mobility or quality of life. Further, falls are a leading cause of death among older adults. According to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, an older adult dies from a fall every 19 minutes. Despite these sobering statistics, falls are not an inescapable part of aging; on the contrary, most falls are largely preventable.</span></div> <hr style="width:100%;clear:both;visibility:hidden;"></hr>  <div>  <!--BLOG_SUMMARY_END--></div>  <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><font size="6">Falls are particularly hard to study &mdash; and prevent &mdash; because no two falls are the same<br /></font><br />Over the years I have interviewed hundreds of older adults who had recently suffered a fall, and one thing is clear: each fall occurs from the&nbsp;<em>unique</em>&nbsp;<em>interaction</em>&nbsp;of the person&rsquo;s balance, the task they were performing just prior to the fall, and the ever-changing environment in which they were moving. All these things make it difficult to pinpoint the exact cause of a particular fall, and nearly impossible to uncover commonalities across all falls suffered by older adults.<br /><br /><font size="6">The complexity of falls may be the key to their prevention<br /></font><br />It is now quite clear that fall-prevention strategies that target just one factor with a well-known link to fall risk, such as muscle weakness, do not effectively reduce falls in older adults. Instead, researchers now believe that in order to keep older adults safe and free from falls over the years, interventions must continuously target multiple individual and environmental factors.<br /><br />This current viewpoint is perhaps best highlighted by the ongoing&nbsp;<a href="http://www.stride-study.org/about-us/trial-design/" target="_blank">STRIDE</a>&nbsp;clinical trial. This pragmatic trial has enrolled 86 primary care practice sites across the country and over 5,400 older adults who are at risk for falls. The aim of this study is to compare the effectiveness of the current standard of care (which is primarily education about fall prevention) with individualized interventions developed by nurse &ldquo;falls care managers&rdquo; working in collaboration with primary care physicians. The falls care manager first assesses the older adult for eight key modifiable risk factors for falls and fall-related injuries: strength and balance, medications, vitamin D deficiency, home safety, orthostatic hypotension, visual impairment, foot problems and footwear, and osteoporosis. They use this information, together with personal preferences from each participant, to devise and implement an individually-tailored intervention that combines strategies for the older adult, recommendations for their doctor, and even referrals to health providers and local community-based organizations to support certain aspects of the intervention.<br /><br />The STRIDE trial is closed to enrollment; however, data collection and analyses of its effectiveness are still underway. In the meantime, here are five specific actions you can take to minimize risk factors for falling.<ul style="color:rgb(68, 68, 68)"><li><strong style="color:rgb(43, 43, 43)">Make exercise part of your daily routine.</strong>&nbsp;According to the Harvard Medical School Special Health Report&nbsp;<em><a href="https://www.health.harvard.edu/exercise-and-fitness/better-balance-simple-exercises-to-improve-stability-and-prevent-falls">Better Balance</a></em>, tight, inflexible, or weak muscles together with poor posture and endurance impinge on balance and can lead to falls. Regular, clinician-approved exercise can help counteract each of these factors. A recent analysis in the&nbsp;<a href="https://www.cochranelibrary.com/cdsr/doi/10.1002/14651858.CD012424.pub2/full" target="_blank">Cochrane Database of Systematic Reviews</a>&nbsp;concluded that regular exercise may reduce the rate of falls by 23%, and the number of people who fall by 15%.</li><li><strong style="color:rgb(43, 43, 43)">Stay mentally active.</strong>&nbsp;Researchers have recently identified cognition as a key player in balance and fall risk. This is because we must pay attention to the world around us, avoid distraction, &ldquo;remember&rdquo; where our body is in space, and make the right decisions to modify our movements when our environment changes unexpectedly. It is for these reasons that staying mentally active, and participating in mind-body exercises such as tai chi, yoga, or dance, have been shown to be particularly effective fall-prevention strategies for older adults.</li><li><strong style="color:rgb(43, 43, 43)">Review your medications.</strong>&nbsp;Discuss all of your medications with your doctor and use them strictly as prescribed. Be aware that some medications have side effects (drowsiness, dizziness, muscle weakness, etc.) that may alter your balance and lead to a fall.</li><li><strong style="color:rgb(43, 43, 43)">Have your vision and hearing checked regularly.</strong>&nbsp;We depend on our vision and hearing to maintain our balance as we move through each day. Wearing glasses and hearing aids when prescribed can reduce the likelihood of balance issues and falls.</li><li><strong style="color:rgb(43, 43, 43)">Conduct an annual home inventory.</strong>&nbsp;Reorganizing<strong style="color:rgb(43, 43, 43)">&nbsp;t</strong>he bedroom, kitchen, living room, and other common areas according to your needs is also important to reduce falls and/or prevent them from recurring over time. For example, keep medicines, clothing, food, dishes, and other necessities for day-to-day living within easy reach. Avoid scatter rugs and remove low-rise furniture, such as coffee tables and bookcases, that may clutter direct access to doors, hallways, and windows. Light the way day and night with lamps by the bed and nightlights in each room, and install light switches by all doors. Handrails on both sides of the stairs and grab bars for the shower and toilet are essential.</li></ul>&#8203;<br />It is also important to remember that falls have a significant impact on your quality of life, whether they cause injury or not. Just the fear of falling can cause loss of confidence and depression, which can lead to isolation and anxiety as older adults withdraw from outside activities or social engagements. Implementing multiple preventive measures early and evaluating them often can facilitate your mobility, reduce your chances of losing balance, and help maintain your quality of life for years to come.</div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[5 Research-Backed Lessons on What Makes a Happy Life]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.familyshieldco.com/news/5-research-backed-lessons-on-what-makes-a-happy-life]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.familyshieldco.com/news/5-research-backed-lessons-on-what-makes-a-happy-life#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Thu, 16 Jan 2020 18:58:07 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.familyshieldco.com/news/5-research-backed-lessons-on-what-makes-a-happy-life</guid><description><![CDATA[POSTED MAY 08, 2017, 10:00 AMRobert John Waldinger, MD,&nbsp;Contributor   	 		 			 				 					 						          					 								 					 						  Ever wonder what it would be like to be able to look at people&rsquo;s entire adult lives? Not asking older people to remember, but starting with them as teenagers and tracking their health and well-being until they die? We&rsquo;ve been lucky enough to do this for the past 78 years, starting in the late 1930s and early &lsquo;40s with a group of men who agr [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="paragraph">POSTED MAY 08, 2017, 10:00 AM<br /><a href="https://www.health.harvard.edu/blog/author/rwaldinger">Robert John Waldinger, MD</a>,&nbsp;Contributor</div>  <div><div class="wsite-multicol"><div class="wsite-multicol-table-wrap" style="margin:0 -15px;"> 	<table class="wsite-multicol-table"> 		<tbody class="wsite-multicol-tbody"> 			<tr class="wsite-multicol-tr"> 				<td class="wsite-multicol-col" style="width:49.777777777778%; padding:0 15px;"> 					 						  <div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-none " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:0px;margin-left:0px;margin-right:0px;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="https://www.familyshieldco.com/uploads/9/0/5/9/90592551/istock-618069482-768x477_orig.jpg" alt="Picture" style="width:auto;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>   					 				</td>				<td class="wsite-multicol-col" style="width:50.222222222222%; padding:0 15px;"> 					 						  <div class="paragraph"><span style="color:rgb(68, 68, 68)">Ever wonder what it would be like to be able to look at people&rsquo;s entire adult lives? Not asking older people to remember, but starting with them as teenagers and tracking their health and well-being until they die? We&rsquo;ve been lucky enough to do this for the past 78 years, starting in the late 1930s and early &lsquo;40s with a group of men who agreed to be part of one of the longest studies of adult life ever done.</span><br /><br /></div>   					 				</td>			</tr> 		</tbody> 	</table> </div></div></div>  <div class="paragraph"><span>The Harvard Study of Adult Development has tracked the lives of 724 men from the time they were teenagers into old age &mdash; 268 Harvard College sophomores, and 456 boys from Boston&rsquo;s inner city. Using questionnaires, interviews, medical records, and scans of blood and brains, we&rsquo;ve monitored their physical and mental health, work lives, friendships, and romances.</span><br /><span>&#8203;</span><br /><span>Here are five of the big lessons we&rsquo;ve learned about what contributes to a good life:</span></div>  <div>  <!--BLOG_SUMMARY_END--></div>  <div class="paragraph"><font size="6">Lesson 1: Happy childhoods matter<br /></font><br />Having warm relationships with parents in childhood predicts that you will have warmer and more secure relationships with those closest to you in adulthood. We found that&nbsp;<a href="http://journals.sagepub.com/doi/abs/10.1177/0956797616661556" target="_blank">warm childhoods reached across decades to predict more secure relationships with spouses at age 80</a>. A&nbsp;<a href="http://www.massgeneral.org/psychiatry/assets/published_papers/Childhood%20Sibling%20Relationships.pdf" target="_blank">close relationship with at least one sibling</a>&nbsp;in childhood predicts that people are less likely to become depressed by age 50. And warmer childhood relationships predict better physical health in adulthood&nbsp;<a href="https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4768550/" target="_blank">all the way into old age</a>.<br /><br /><font size="6">Lesson 2: Fostering the welfare of the next generation can ease the sting of difficult childhoods<br /></font><br />People who grow up in difficult childhood environments (chaotic families, economic uncertainty) grow old less happily than those who have more fortunate childhoods. But by the time these people reach middle age (ages 50 to 65),&nbsp;<a href="https://drive.google.com/file/d/0B5A7EfSWtQVEVTJ3U1dTY29kd2c/view" target="_blank">those who mentor the next generation</a>&nbsp;&mdash; guiding younger adults at home or at work &mdash; are happier and better adjusted than those who do not. The kind of maturation needed to nurture younger people also seems to reduce some of the sting of growing up disadvantaged.<br /><br /><font size="6">Lesson 3: Coping effectively with stress has lifelong benefits<br /></font><br />We all have habitual ways of managing stress and relieving anxiety. Some people tend to ignore uncomfortable facts, while others tend to face difficult issues and deal with what is unpleasant. For example, someone who is angry at his boss might &ldquo;forget about it&rdquo; but start missing important work deadlines. Alternatively, he might find a way to take up his concerns directly with that boss. We found that the people who cope with stress by engaging more directly with reality rather than pushing it away have better relationships with others. This coping style makes it easier for others to deal with them, which in turn makes people want to help them. They end up having&nbsp;<a href="https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3767455/" target="_blank">better relationships and more social support</a>, and this predicts healthier aging in your 60s and 70s. People who use these more adaptive coping mechanisms in middle age also end up with&nbsp;<a href="https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3085284/" target="_blank">brains that stay sharper longer</a>.<br /><br /><font size="6">Lesson 4: Breaking bad habits earlier in life makes a difference<br /></font><br />Watching people&rsquo;s smoking habits across adulthood,&nbsp;<a href="https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2700828/" target="_blank">those who quit earlier are less likely to develop lung disease as they grow old</a>. They are also more likely to live longer than people who do not quit smoking or who quit later in life. Our findings differ from some studies that find no change in risk of disease and death once you&rsquo;re tobacco-free for 15 years or more. Getting off the couch and starting to exercise earlier in life predicts that you&rsquo;ll stay healthy longer in life, that your brain will stay sharper, and even that&nbsp;<a href="http://www.nature.com/icb/journal/v94/n2/abs/icb2015113a.html" target="_blank">your immune system will be stronger</a>.<br /><br /><font size="6">Lesson 5: Time with others makes us happier<br /></font><br />Looking back on their lives, people most often report their time with others as the most meaningful part of life, and what they&rsquo;re proudest of. Time with other people makes us happier on a&nbsp;<a href="https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2896234/" target="_blank">day-to-day basis</a>, and time with a close partner buffers us against the mood dips that come with increased physical pain.<br /><br />You can learn more about the study and our research at&nbsp;<a href="http://www.robertwaldinger.com/" target="_blank">www.robertwaldinger.com</a>&nbsp;and&nbsp;<a href="http://www.adultdevelopmentstudy.org/" target="_blank">www.adultdevelopmentstudy.org</a>. We are now studying the children of these men. Almost 1,300 of these second-generation baby boomers are participating in our study, and we hope to know more about what helps people thrive across generations.<br />&#8203;<br />Stay tuned.</div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Eat Better, Live Longer]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.familyshieldco.com/news/eat-better-live-longer]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.familyshieldco.com/news/eat-better-live-longer#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Thu, 16 Jan 2020 18:53:54 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.familyshieldco.com/news/eat-better-live-longer</guid><description><![CDATA[POSTED MARCH 31, 2017, 7:00 AMRobert H. Shmerling, MD,&nbsp;Faculty Editor, Harvard Health PublishingFollow me on Twitter&nbsp;@RobShmerling   We&rsquo;ve all heard it before: to be as healthy as you can be, choose a healthy diet. And while that&rsquo;s easier said than done, the impact of improving your diet may be large. That&rsquo;s according to a&nbsp;recent study&nbsp;that estimated the impact of dietary modifications on premature cardiovascular deaths in this country. The verdict? More tha [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="paragraph">POSTED MARCH 31, 2017, 7:00 AM<br /><a href="https://www.health.harvard.edu/blog/author/rshmerling">Robert H. Shmerling, MD</a>,&nbsp;Faculty Editor, Harvard Health Publishing<br /><em style="color:rgb(68, 68, 68)">Follow me on Twitter</em><span style="color:rgb(68, 68, 68)">&nbsp;@RobShmerling</span><br /></div>  <span class='imgPusher' style='float:right;height:0px'></span><span style='display: table;width:298px;position:relative;float:right;max-width:100%;;clear:right;margin-top:0px;*margin-top:0px'><a><img src="https://www.familyshieldco.com/uploads/9/0/5/9/90592551/published/istock-488214714-768x564.jpg?1579201042" style="margin-top: 5px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; border-width:0; max-width:100%" alt="Picture" class="galleryImageBorder wsite-image" /></a><span style="display: table-caption; caption-side: bottom; font-size: 90%; margin-top: -0px; margin-bottom: 0px; text-align: center;" class="wsite-caption"></span></span> <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;display:block;"><span style="color:rgb(68, 68, 68)">We&rsquo;ve all heard it before: to be as healthy as you can be, choose a healthy diet. And while that&rsquo;s easier said than done, the impact of improving your diet may be large. That&rsquo;s according to a&nbsp;</span><a href="http://newsroom.heart.org/news/unhealthy-diets-linked-to-more-than-400-000-cardiovascular-deaths" target="_blank">recent study</a><span style="color:rgb(68, 68, 68)">&nbsp;that estimated the impact of dietary modifications on premature cardiovascular deaths in this country. The verdict? More than 400,000 deaths each year could be prevented with dietary improvement.</span></div> <hr style="width:100%;clear:both;visibility:hidden;"></hr>  <div>  <!--BLOG_SUMMARY_END--></div>  <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><font size="6">Exactly how should you improve your diet?</font><br /><br />Just what does &ldquo;improving your diet&rdquo; mean? Limiting unhealthy foods is a good start. Fewer French fries, less salt, and a little less ice cream are all good ideas and make sense. But this new report, and several expert guidelines, suggest that it&rsquo;s not only what you don&rsquo;t eat. What you&nbsp;<em>do&nbsp;</em>eat matters, too. It&rsquo;s also important to eat more healthy foods.<br /><br />In this study, researchers analyzed patient surveys between 1990 and 2012, food availability data from the Food and Agriculture Organization of the United Nations, and data on cardiovascular deaths in 2015. They estimated that the biggest contributors to the premature cardiovascular deaths of more than 220,000 men and about 190,000 women were due to<br /><br /><ul style="color:rgb(68, 68, 68)"><li>high consumption of salt and trans fat (a particularly unhealthy form of unsaturated fat commonly found in processed foods as &ldquo;partially hydrogenated oils&rdquo;)</li><li>low consumption of nuts, seeds, vegetables, and whole grains.</li></ul><br /><font size="6">And here&rsquo;s why it matters: </font><br />Cardiovascular disease is the #1 cause of death in the U. S.Cardiovascular disease accounts for an estimated 787,000 deaths each year. And dietary factors can affect one&rsquo;s risk of cardiovascular disease because:<ul style="color:rgb(68, 68, 68)"><li>obesity increases the risk of type 2 diabetes, and both obesity and diabetes are risk factors for cardiovascular disease</li></ul> &nbsp;<ul style="color:rgb(68, 68, 68)"><li>high blood pressure (hypertension) is more common among those with high salt intake and obesity</li><li>diet affects cholesterol levels</li><li>research suggests that not eating enough fruits, vegetables, and fiber may increase risk.</li></ul><br /><font size="6">Ever started a new diet?</font><br /><br />It&rsquo;s easy to make recommendations about improving dietary choices. Making long-lasting change is hard. Willpower and commitment is often not enough. Just ask anyone who has been frustrated by repeated and unsuccessful efforts to lose weight, lower blood pressure, or lower cholesterol by starting a new diet.<br /><br />The pervasiveness of unhealthy diets and the epidemic of obesity in this country have led to the suggestion that we should approach this as a public health problem that might be improved by taxing unhealthy foods and subsidizing healthier options.&nbsp;<a href="https://consumer.healthday.com/vitamins-and-nutrition-information-27/food-and-nutrition-news-316/smart-food-pricing-could-bring-healthier-choices-720261.html" target="_blank">Another new study</a>looked at the impact of this approach. In fact, in places where unhealthy foods were taxed or where healthy foods became less expensive through subsidies, diets tended to improve. Of course, that raises the question of how much government agencies or others should be involved in swaying consumers&rsquo; dietary choices. But from a public health perspective, the data seem clear: if you want to encourage healthier eating, one approach is through the pocketbook.<br /><br /><font size="6">And, finally&hellip;</font><br /><br />If you&rsquo;re not sure what constitutes a healthy diet, it might be because there is no one diet that&rsquo;s best for everyone. However, there a number of dietary guidelines worth considering, including:<ul style="color:rgb(68, 68, 68)"><li><a href="http://www.health.harvard.edu/staying-healthy/mediterranean-diet-good-for-your-mind-and-your-heart">The Mediterranean Diet</a></li><li><a href="https://www.choosemyplate.gov/" target="_blank">Choose My Plate</a>&nbsp;from the USDA</li><li>the&nbsp;<a href="https://www.hsph.harvard.edu/nutritionsource/healthy-eating-plate/" target="_blank">Healthy Eating Plate</a>&nbsp;from the Harvard School of Public Health and Harvard Medical School.</li></ul> &#8203;<br />Talk to your doctor about your diet. Depending on your overall health and current diet, it might be a good idea to meet with a nutritionist. The goal is to come up with a healthy diet you can stick with. It may not be easy, but a change that could prevent more than 400,000 deaths per year is a change worth making. After all, one of those prevented deaths could be yours.</div>]]></content:encoded></item></channel></rss>